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36 New York, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 30-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
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Straight, Heteroflexible, Queer
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Average build
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I only left the bookstore because a song came on that felt like my theme music of the moment and I thought people may want to see me walk.

On Wikipedia pages I skip to the section on Death before reading anything else, not morbid just intimate and most personal.

I laugh loudly and often. I think I'm funny. I'm a lazy workaholic. A bit of an asshole - but not in a malicious sense but moreso a blunt + honest + genuine sense. I'm also really sweet and affectionate. I'm a clumsy and graceful country girl who has been all over the world (insert obligatory cliff pic here). I am many things that won't fit here or your expectations - and that's a great thing.

I'm deathly allergic to bullshit. Stay away from me murderer.

Though it may sound cliché - I'm generally just interested in meeting cool, fun, down to earth people who have their shit together.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I decided what I wanted to do careerwise when I was a junior in highschool - I recently achieved that goal - on to the next...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Vodka infusions
Reading people
Solving problems
Making people laugh
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Your perception of me largely depends on your self-perception.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Sample of most recently Starred on Spotify:

Is There Anybody Out There? (Laura Mvula)

The Charade (D'Angelo)

Only (Nicki Minaj)

The Wheel (SOHN)

If You Want Me to Stay (Sly & The Family Stone)

Keskin Biçak (Sezen Aksu)

Looking Too Closely (Fink)

Distance (Emily King)

Two Weeks (FKA Twigs)

Fall in Love (Phantogram)

Snatch It Back and Hold It (Junior Wells, Buddy Guy)

...and all things Sesame Street
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why was little Nikki grinding in a hotel lobby?

Doesn't it make more sense to have a recent, significant ex complete our dating profiles?

How to best help people become more empathic
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
New to NYC - I'm settling into what a Friday night looks like for me here..:
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Originally from Oklahoma yada yada yada moved here from Cambridge yada yada yada
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're interesting and awesome. Not the I live on the bleeding edge so I can post pics on Instagram and you'll like me, you'll really like me type of interesting...not that you'd know it if you were that type :)