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35 F New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:02am
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I only left the bookstore because a song came on that felt like my theme music of the moment and I thought people may want to see me walk.

On Wikipedia pages I skip to the section on Death before reading anything else, not morbid just intimate and most personal.

I laugh loudly and often. I think I'm funny. I'm a lazy workaholic. Passion spread thin, looking to focus (at least work wise). I'm a clumsy and graceful country girl who has been all over the world (insert obligatory cliff pic here). I am many things that won't fit here or your expectations - and that's a great thing.

I'm deathly allergic to bullshit. Stay away from me murderer.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I decided what I wanted to do careerwise when I was a junior in highschool - I achieved that goal 2 years ago. Now what...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Vodka infusions
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm sure what is first noticed varies depending on the person, context, etc
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Let's just say my spotify rocks...let's also say that the following are a few favs:
"I Want You" -Erykah Bad
"A Foggy Day" -Louis et al
"Sentimental Mood" -Duke Ellington
"Misread" -Kings of Convenience
"Half the Perfect World" -Mme Peyroux
"Black and Gold" -Sam Sparro
"Optimistic" -Radiohead
"No Church in the Wild" -Jay and Ye
"Riot Rhythm" -Sleigh Bells
"Don't Owe You a Thang" -Clark, G.

I spent the past year re-reading favorite fictions from my youth and now turning toward non-fiction and biographies. I'm particularly interested in histories of Afro-Europeans.

Love Me If You Dare
Two Days in Paris
Kung Fu Panda

Archer, Game of Thrones, Downton Abbey, Lie to Me (but don't), Louis CK

Lemonada con vodka
Buttered popcorn + raisinets
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
learning, questions
air, food, water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why was little Nikki grinding in a hotel lobby?

Doesn't it make more sense to have a recent, significant ex complete our dating profiles?

How to translate the funny and ridiculous shit in my head into French [that'salie, my French is really shitty...embarrassingly so given that I studied it for 6 years]

Why so many people on OKC 1) brag about their egg cooking skills and 2) are working with small start ups in X-Square

What I want to be when I grow up

How the "no one's contacted him/her this week" courtesy of OKC may not be a great motivator to message
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sleeping or whatever was good enough to beat out a quality snooze fest
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Originally from Oklahoma yada yada yada moved here from Chicago yada yada yada

I have a crush on a (the?) Donkey Show DJ and the chocolatey fairy. Call me maybe?
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're interesting and awesome. Not the I live on the bleeding edge so I can post pics on Instagram and you'll like me, you'll really like me type of interesting...not that you'd know it if you were that type. :)

Regardless of your awesomeness level:
-you'd enjoy playing tennis with a rusty competitive high school player
-you appreciate the art of the cocktail/spirits/brewskis
-you'd enjoy a round of golf with someone who never really knew how to play
-you own rollerblades and aren't afraid to use them (the dream of the 90s is alive in Boston)
-you're intimately familiar with the less beaten paths of Boston et al or you want to find them
-dark bars with good/great music (live or otherwise)?