I love the adventure of life. I'm not sure how I could really sum myself up without writing a novel, I mean how could anyone? If I had to try I would say I'm a Viking rockstar! (I jest) I love music, and culture, dance and art. I love sharing experiences with friends and family! I am married, and we have very poly friendly morals in regards to love, life, and marriage. She and I on occasion date separately and/or together. We are not looking for some fantasy hook up, but are genuinely interested in relationships. Nor does she expect a lady I might be seeing to be interested in her in any way other then showing her friendliness and the courtesy doe her station as my wife and life partner. Fyi, I met her here on Okcupid, so this site works!
Ultimately the woman I am looking for would be aggressive, and nurturing. Mature, reflective, friendly, kindhearted who can communicate openly and honestly. Educated, emotionally balanced, intelligent, who can stimulate me with her wit and interests. Affectionate, faithful, and romantic, and makes and ideal lover. She is patient, thoughtful, and adventurous and is a valuable life partner. She is beautiful to me, a little sexy, physically fit and of a very tactile nature. We would give mutual respect to each other and share our thoughts and dreams. I need to feel a deep and meaningful connection to my romantic partner, so someone I could talk to very easily! Someone who can keep me focused and be the driving force behind my success. My ideal lady would be geeky, but well dressed and attractive!
I generally like being happy, often in a boisterous way. I am rather hyperactive, and am usually in motion. I think being normal is boring, and mundane equals sucks. I love to articulate my thought, and discus all kinds of things.
I do go out, I like adventures. I appreciate edgy aspects of life. I like sitting on street corners with kids with Mohawks, or mosh pit dancing to killer music... while sitting in my car. I really like walking around parks and talking, or even just pretending to fight monsters with sticks.
I like sharing my time the most.
I have a LOT of AWESOME interests, and am really good at certain stuff, oh and and they are all cool things too! I will briefly describe them here as much of who I am is reflected in what I do.
-What I do with my time...
I love music, and both sing and play bass guitar. I love to sing and do it all the time. I play three different genres...
I sing Celtic and Scandinavian folk with Hravnsongr.com
I play in melodic Metal/Rock band Deadiron.com
I also am a founding member of the Punk/Oi! band Brazen Rogues. www.myspace.com/brazenroguesplus
Do not hit on me because I am in a band, that's lame and you'll be disappointed because I have a brain, don't get high. Oh, and wont put out on the first date :) ...usually... (Joke, joke!!)
I LOVE dancing too, but I am new to it!
-Important aspects of my life are...
The martial path Martial Arts. That's a biggie towards my personal growth and development.
I study Kung-fu and European Sword technique.
I regularly compete in tournament sword fighting competitions and melee events with groups such as the SCA (scademo.com)
I study ancient Norse culture, from spirituality to clothing to combat. This allows me to do reenactment of Viking era living history.
I really enjoy doing this stuff and find it hugely fulfilling.
Spiritually... I suppose I am a Asatru Taoist Atheist, if that makes sense at all.. I am huge into Norse heathenism, Asatru (the polytheistic ancestral spiritual practice of Iceland, and Scandinavia, similar to Shinto of Japan).
I basically fell in love with the viking gods & lore when I was very little. I love it and it's important to me.
That does not mean I take any religion literally, like I said I am a Taoist, it just means I understand them for what they are and are not, science is real, the Tao is openness and Asatru is awesome. That said I am a Gothi for a local kindred ;)
My favorite games is D&D, and I don't care how dorky that makes me, I hope this weeds people who suck out, lol!! I love role play gaming that use only your imaginations, and wits. It's like thespian-ism (I would have been an actor if it wouldn't have interfered with being so punk rock when I was younger... not sure if I made the right choice there in hind sight...