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33 Seattle, WA Woman


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  • Ages 23-52
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My details

Last online
Nov 21, 2009
Asian, Native American, White
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
Might want kids
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I am half Japanese (the rest seems of no interest to other people, so it will go unmentioned). I was living in Japan and ignoring OkCupid to work a crap job with long hours. While there, I was able to find evidence for my hypothesis that, while I look Asian to Caucasians, I look Caucasian to Japanese (and yet, I look Korean to Koreans ...). So, I knew I looked Asian to Caucasians because of my eyes, but I look Caucasian to Japanese because of my nose. Hooray for being a mutt.

I also got married (which OkCupid seems to have a hard time updating). Previously, I had viewed marriage as merely a religious and political institution and the romantic notion of love as a more optimistic, sugar-coated view of infatuation and sexual attraction. Needless to say, I am no longer quite so curmudgeonly.

I am on fire, stomping on a puppy, and hungry
What I’m doing with my life
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Accomplishing menial, degrading tasks that are beneath me for cash and producing art while contemplating my future existance where I will likely be caught in a 9 - 5 dead end job, making my diploma's usefullness be limited to fire kindling.
I’m really good at
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Thinking positive.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The same things that a person generally looks at when first noticing them: ethnicity, gender, eyes, mouth ...

... then my radiant personality...

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: "Will There Really Be a Morning" (Francis Farmer), "Catfish and Mandala" (Andrew Pham), "The Bell Jar" (Sylvia Plath), "Close to the Knives: a memoir of disintegration" (David Wojnarowicz)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Christians and anyone having anything to do with the administration of clinical psychology frighten me. So do people in the military, people with bleached-blond hair, and people with fake tans ... but not as much.

... In addition ... I'm a huge softy. It sucks.

You should message me if
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If you have something to say. Also, I log in very seldom. When I do, I have messages from months ago and I think to myself, "I'm not going to respond to their message now; they already think I'm an asshole for not responding earlier." then proceed to merely read the message in sulky silence. So, I am now making mention of this so that anyone thinking of possibly messaging me will be forewarned and I will have, therefore, relieved myself of a fraction of the self-loathing that will come about when I will not respond to that message.