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humanitiesguy

33 / M / straight / Single

Sacramento, California

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 2" (1.87m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Casual sex
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Unemployed
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Owns dogs and Dislikes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am intelligent, artistic, and cynical.

My Self-Summary

I enjoy reading all types of books, but I tend to focus on non-fiction, with history, philosophy, and political science as my favorite genres. I also play guitar in a local band, although we are still not quite ready to play out. Prior to this semester, I was employed as a college-level history instructor, but am now looking for a new job due to this state's massive education budget cuts.

As for what I truly focus on in my life, I take care of my 14 year old daughter on most days, whom I have a very close relationship with. That being said, I do not bring any dates over to meet her, because I want her to have as normal a family life as possible. SOMETIMES THIS MEANS I AM NOT AVAILABLE FOR A NIGHT OUT, ETC. I feel bad saying this, but I'm afraid scheduling time to meet can often be a challenge. Also, I am not looking for a serious long-term commitment right now, as a somewhat recent divorcee that was married for 12 years, I feel that I should explore new people and just have some fun for awhile before I decide to welcome a new person into our lives.

So, in case that last paragraph hasn't completely scared you off, and you are still reading this summary, I should provide you with a few positives about me:
1. I am extremely honest, you can ask me anything or talk about anything
2. I respect women tremendously, despite my bitter divorce. This is part of the reason I am so protective of my daughter's well-being.
3. I am very intelligent, and I hold an M.A. in U.S. history. I love to have heated political/social debates, especially when someone has a different point of view. I always respect the opinion of others, assuming they are well-researched in their statements.
4. I am extremely passionate both in terms of my social beliefs and in the bedroom. My goal is always to provide a woman with the best treatment possible, and I enjoy nothing more than bringing a beautiful woman to orgasm. I even like to cuddle afterwards.

What I’m doing with my life

Looking for jobs, writing music, researching history, struggling with finances.

I’m really good at

Historical research, knowing/playing music, teaching, helping others deal with their personal problems.

The first things people usually notice about me

I am nice, cute (well, at least some think so, lol), tall, have long-hair, I talk alot about politics and social issues, I play guitar extremely fast.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

BOOKS: Howard Zinn's "A People's History of the United States", Noam Chomsky's "Deterring Democracy", Ronald Takaki's "A Different Mirror", William Cronan's "Nature's Metropolis", Gary Nash's "Urban Crucible", Richard Sellars's "Preserving Nature in the National Parks", Seymour Melman's "Pentagon Capitalism", Percy Shelley's complete works, Henry David Thoreau's "On Civil Disobedience", anything by George Orwell, Bellamy's "Looking Backward", and literally thousands of others.

MUSIC: Tool, Guns N' Roses, Slayer, Mozart, Melvins, Jello Biafra, The Beatles, Hank Williams 1 and 3, Johnny Cash, Black Sabbath, Bad Religion, TSOL, Pantera, Nine Inch Nails, Skinny Puppy, System of a Down, Rage Against the Machine, Outkast, N.W.A., Joe Cocker, Janis Joplin, The Doors, Count Basie, Howlin' Wolf, Buddy Holly.....every genre has at least some good music, even disco! (I play metal/punk, however)

FOOD: anything I'm not allergic to. (Chinese or Indian nearly always works)

MOVIES: Amadeus, Citizen Cane, Gandhi, Das Boot, most Tim Burton films, Armageddon Now, V for Vendetta, Idiocracy, Harold and Kumar 1 and 2, Schindler's List, Cheech and Chong. (My interest in movies obviously varies widely, like my interest in music.)

The six things I could never do without

My Daughter, My music, my books, Sex, Love, and especially Passion.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Songs I'm trying to write, problems in American History, problems in our current society.

On a typical Friday night I am

Either at home watching a movie or camping with my daughter, or I go out with friends to catch a few drinks and maybe a local band.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I easily become very addicted to sex, and am often a pushover when it comes to helping people.

You should message me if

You are not looking for a long-term commitment right now, and if you truly understand my protective nature regarding my daughter.