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54 • Toms River, NJ • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 37–55
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
- Last online
- Jul 28, 2014
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Not at all
- Leo, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Rather not say
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
I wonder if I'll ever meet another soul mate. My first, and so far only one was a long, long time ago. I was too young to realize the implications of it all at the time. I was a late bloomer as far as being sexual, and at 19 and 20, I just didn't think I could settle down with this person. It's funny (and sad) how I've never felt such a connection with another woman. The moment we met we realized that we should be together. We were in a room full of people (a cafeteria at college), and she was the only person I could see or hear. There were other circumstances that arose, beside my fear and lack of worldly experiences, that kept us apart. I only say all of this to say that I believe in love, destiny, romanticism, etc., etc., even though it has eluded me for the past almost 30 years. I've had some relationships, but never like that one. I'm not here to waste my time or yours. I believe it is possible again, and that is why I am here.
Also, if you're an easy going, non-controlling, casual kind of person. If you want to start on a wonderful journey with me, don't be shy, write me an e-mail. Good luck to all.
If you've just gotten out of a relationship, or if you're looking to jump immediately into one, I don't think we would be a good match. I like to take my time when getting to know someone. Especially if it's about such an important possible relationship as my future last mate.
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