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54 Toms River, NJ Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 37–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 28, 2014
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Has kids, but doesn’t want more

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My self-summary
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I have lots of integrity and am looking for the same. Looking to end my online dating career. Please get me outta here.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working for a living and loving it.
I’m really good at
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listening and making someone feel special.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile and my hair if it isn't shaved down.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Love the Deer Hunter, Absence of Malice, The Big Chill -too many to mention. Love the Beatles, Neil Young, Bob Dylan, The Eagles, The Black Keys. Way too many to mention. I should probably list who I don't like. Most heavy metal bands.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, my integrity (it can't be taken, only given away), all my senses, my children, all my experiences- especially the bad ones, (they've made me who I am), and my DVR.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how wonderful it would be to truly meet a special woman who is down to earth, and gets me and gets what is truly important in this life. And, it would only be so wonderful if I felt the same about her.
I wonder if I'll ever meet another soul mate. My first, and so far only one was a long, long time ago. I was too young to realize the implications of it all at the time. I was a late bloomer as far as being sexual, and at 19 and 20, I just didn't think I could settle down with this person. It's funny (and sad) how I've never felt such a connection with another woman. The moment we met we realized that we should be together. We were in a room full of people (a cafeteria at college), and she was the only person I could see or hear. There were other circumstances that arose, beside my fear and lack of worldly experiences, that kept us apart. I only say all of this to say that I believe in love, destiny, romanticism, etc., etc., even though it has eluded me for the past almost 30 years. I've had some relationships, but never like that one. I'm not here to waste my time or yours. I believe it is possible again, and that is why I am here.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
thinking about how lame it is to be on this dating site.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'll tell you after we've chatted for a bit.
You should message me if
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you think we would be a match or if you're as tired of this as I am. I will, at the very least, give you some words of encouragement, or listen to you if you need to get some frustration out of your system.
Also, if you're an easy going, non-controlling, casual kind of person. If you want to start on a wonderful journey with me, don't be shy, write me an e-mail. Good luck to all.
If you've just gotten out of a relationship, or if you're looking to jump immediately into one, I don't think we would be a good match. I like to take my time when getting to know someone. Especially if it's about such an important possible relationship as my future last mate.