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humdo

58 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Jul 15
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black, White, Other
Height
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, and might want more
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
1--ET TU POETICA
2--I AM THE ANT
3--BLAH, BLAH, PEDIGREE, BLAH, BLAH, BLAH
4--WHAT'S THE DEAL, LOLLIPOP? NG.
5--CONCUBINE, AND MORE
6--"THE MINI REVEAL

1--ET TU, POETICA

Juvenal [Roman Poet, c. 1st-2d Century AD]:

You should pray for a healthy mind in a healthy body.
Ask for a stout heart that has no fear of death,
and deems length of days the least of Nature’s gifts
that can endure any kind of toil,
that knows neither wrath nor desire and thinks
the woes and hard labors of Hercules better than
the loves and banquets and downy cushions of Sardanapalus.
What I commend to you, you can give to yourself;
For assuredly, the only road to a life of peace is virtue.


But Juvenal, downy cushions are the reward for hard labor....

2--I AM THE ANT

For whatever reason you came upon my profile, I am the Ant who came upon the elephant, and both enjoyed the sunset, sipping mojitos. Yes--you are the elephant, not because of looks or personality, but because you are discerning in character. And I am just that Ant--of a different sort. If we connect, it will not be because of online dating cliches--chemistry, compatibility, cravings-- but, rather, because you will see value in my vision and have no doubt that I see you as the one for life: that woman who welcomes being comforted, loved and challenged; who will protect me from my blindside; and will allow me to advocate her view of self, life and worth.

3--BLAH, BLAH, PEDIGREE, BLAH, BLAH, BLAH

...Dalton-educated Yalie, former Wall Street lawyer.....and 25 cents and a cup of coffee...

4--WHAT'S THE DEAL, LOLLIPOP? NG.

In a previous version of my narrative, I found I was a little too transparent, which led to my attracting some unsavories. And, yes 99% of your profiles are about sunshine and lollipops. And as no sane woman in her 40's or 50's could have escaped being scarred to some extent, if not traumatized, by the real world of strife, disillusionment and fear, then maybe 99% of the sunshine-lollipop profiles are useless, saccharine honey traps, no?.

So beyond general statements about loving your life, your kids, hiking, jogging, yoga, black dresses, good taste, what have you accomplished or hope to accomplish of which you are proud? What value do you bring to the table more substantive than sunshine and lollipops? What have you done?

5--CONCUBINE, AND MORE

Okay, I am aware of your range of reactions (horror to "who the h#@# does he think he is"). First, and assuming you know the full cultural meanings (not Roman, but Chinese and Japanese) or have looked it up (beyond some online dictionary), a concubine can and, FOR ME, needs to be my true love, my trusted advisor, above all others, the mother of our children, the manager of our lives, and, my one and exclusive woman. In the common parlance: "I make 'em, she spreads them").

Second, remember the "AND MORE". At some point, a marriage ceremony may occur, not out of necessity (as financial stability would already have been assured for both of us), but because it might be fun, enjoyable, a traditional wrapping offered to our friends and family who may not understand the preexisting depth of our relationship.

Yes, a woman with real backbone, whose advice I covet and trust.

6--"THE MINI REVEAL

Details...So let me pull the curtain aside a little more--if you are now in your 40's to 50's, with kids, without kids, near or away, I want one woman to join me to build a life together in either (a) SoCal, BVI, and London or (b) New York, Connecticut, BVI and London, or (c) some other combination.

Fair warning: I have worked so hard because of one fundamental value--my belief in and responsibility for my extended family. If you do not have a similar family connection, you may not understand me, so let's be two ships passing in the fog.

I am a principal in a private investment company and foolishly invented a sentiment analysis technology used for stock trading. Like the inventor of the glue now used in Post-its, my creation did not exactly work well for the intended application, but my partner, the mathematician, saw a different monetization approach, and, there you go.
What I’m doing with my life
Asked and answered.

What I am not doing is experimenting with serial relationships...and CLARION CALL OF TRUMPETS PLAYING IN THE BACKGROUND the only ethnicity I require is a woman, who did not hate her parents, has an unending spark of life, and wants to create a truly committed life of love. Oh--smarts and beauty do help.
I’m really good at
confidence in nonsense. that is the spark of innovation
The first things people usually notice about me
Really. Come on. I am a big, smiling 6'4" mocha-colored man, with X-ray eyes, and a small mark of Damian centered in my forehead.
The six things I could never do without
Things are useful, but can be replaced if they are gone. The absence of a transformational love, now that would be a real loss.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You have fully read my profile, and have more than lollipops to offer.

If it is you, I need you, not so much to keep up with me (although, that would be nice), but able to be yourself, be supportive of me and help me manage a life of value, comfort, and stability.

If you are so intrepid, the journey will be fun, important, and longlasting.

NOTICE: Any entities or individuals using any portion of my profile for any commercial purpose to which I have not consented, will be subject to legal action, including for intentional business torts such as exploitation of protected content and images for commercial use. Such legal action shall seek recovery of attorney's fees.