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31 Berkeley, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 23–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:23pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Atheism, and very serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Dislikes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Vietnamese (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm a young professional that just loves to have fun with all sorts of activities! I'm pretty diverse with my activities and do things that range from traveling, theater, fine dining, outdoor activities, movies, to boardgames. I also keep myself informed by keeping up on current events and meaningful issues.

I am knowledgeable, warmhearted, and reliable
What I’m doing with my life
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Work: I do IT Consulting work and help clients become more efficient using technology and better processes.

Short Term Goals:
* Travel to all 7 continents by 2015. Antarctica is the last one!
* Get better at bouldering. Solid v2 climber and have some v3 and v4 projects. Always looking for climbing partners, so message me if you like to climb too!
* Get my side art/geek hobby to generate income (ShadowOfDorkness on Etsy and DeviantArt).

Long Term Goals:
* Achieve financial independence and go into semi-retirement.
* Design a board game. My current idea a tongue-in-cheek board game making fun of the corporate ladder
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
* Making lists :-)
* Debating politics, philosophy, science
* Making travel and dinner plans
* Knowing lots of random trivia/facts
The first things people usually notice about me
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* My Threadless T-Shirts
* My tendency to get super excited about really dorky things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Boyhood, Hero, Once, Run Lola Run, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, The Princess Bride, Kung Fu Hustle, Up in the Air, anything Miyazaki, Mary and Max, anything Pixar, The Emperor's New Groove, Slumdog Millionaire, Oldboy, Inception, Sita Sings the Blues, Amelie, Planet Earth, Exit through the Gift Shop, Little Miss Sunshine

TV: Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, Big Bang Theory, Community, Portlandia, House of Cards, Arrested Development, Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D., My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic (yes, I'm a brony)

The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Clay, Richard Dawkins, 1491 and 1493, Mistborn Trilogy, The God Delusion, The Paradox of Choice, any science book, Game of Thrones, The Blank Slate, Your Money or Your Life, Why the West Rules for Now, The Better Angels of our Nature.

I'm a foodie, and love all sorts of food, from dingy street food to 3 Star Michelin Restaurants (including the #1 restaurant in the world). Ask me about my favorites.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. good food
2. board games
3. traveling
4. theater/movies (especially film festivals)
5. the internet
6. science and philosophy
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
* New restaurants I want to eat at
* Next vacation plans
* Figuring out my next art design
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
* Eating good food with friends (restaurant or at home)
* Watching a theater production
* Watching a good movie
* Playing boardgames
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I was in HS and still closeted I secretly played the original Sims and turned my character gay. I started with the default family but then eventually kept on flirting/hugging/kissing the manly neighbor until the wife/daughter moved out and he moved in.
You should message me if
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you have your life together and have some direction/goals.

Also, if you are active, considerate, and fun-loving! Bonus points for liking good food, enjoying foreign/indie films, playing boardgames, and keeping abreast of world events.