Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Professional sensual masseur
I'm concerned about big issues--like dismantling modern imperial
capitalism/patriarchy. But I also know how to enjoy the
simplicities of life.
Things I really love:
Playing music (here's my band:
Laughing from the heart
Trying to hypothesize solutions to the many world crises
And the list goes on...
*****Also, I have non-monogamous relationships. If you message me,
please be okay with this!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Listening, learning, loving...and making plenty of mistakes along
the way :)
I'm working to use my priviledge to better serve those who are
systematically denied the respect, dignity and justce which is
rightly theirs. I'm getting together a zine directed towards white
cis men with topics that raise awareness around consent, male
priviledge, systematic racism and misogyny and cultural
appropriation. Message me if you want to get involved!
Other things I'm into;
continuing my travels
filling life with interesting people
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking you dinner
Acting like a child (with or without other children)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't see how I would know this :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
-'The Power and Promise of Ecofeminism' Karen J Warren
'Things Fall Apart' Chinua Achebe
-'Yes Means Yes, Visions of Female Sexual Power and a World Without
-'Cunt' Inga Muscio
-I really love Alan Watts; 'The Wisdom of Insecurity', 'This is
It', 'In My Way'
-The zen buddhist text Awakening of Faith
-The 'Tibetan Book of Living and Dying' by Sogyal Rinpoche
-'The Ethical Slut' Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton
-Hemingway, particularly his poems
The list goes on, but that's enough for now yea?
I like to watch documentaries, but also enjoy a well crafted piece
of cinema. Broken Cameras, is a very amazing and important film.
Some others: Pulp Fiction, Amélie, Almost Famous, City of God, My
Life as a Dog, Shawshank Redemption, Spirited Away, Akiro,
Well...you'll just have to ask me. In brief, I like everything from
Delta Blues Folk to Deep House to Gypsy Jazz
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
privilege and the ways I can be an ally to the oppressed
all the possible ways to love
ways to end oppression
whether humanity is a fruit or infection of the earth
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The truth actually will set you free; it's just that so few believe
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I'm seeking connections with passionate and independent people.
Show me what motivates and inspires you and I'll show you what does
this for me! If something more develops out of the fluidity of our
interaction, all the better! To me, friendship is the best
foundation to any romance. And while I say I'm looking for
independent people to hang out with, I'm also open to finding a
more frequent lover/ something that resembles a primary, though
it's not at all a requirement. :)
***NOTE: I'm only interested in non-mongomous/polyamorous
relationships, so please be okay with this if you'd like to hang
I'm interested in a primary relationship with the right human
being. I'd like something with more time and energy commitments
and/or one which meets more needs. I've been feeling like I need
more romantic intimate connections in life right now--as opposed to
loving sexy friendships (which are fabulous, by the way). However,
I'm also very open to whatever level of connection or role a new
lover may play in my life, no matter how infrequent or committed
they may be in another relationship. So if you already have a
primary, don't feel discourage from contacting me, I welcome all
levels of connection!
So, that being cleared up, message me if..
-Something in my profile resonated with you
-You're interested in or currently practicing clinical
-You want to go climbing (particularly if you need a top-rope
-You want to spin poi or staff, etc
-Youre into kink and you want to explore it with me
-You're interested in webcamming and looking for a mutually
respectful, nsa business partner to perform with ;)
-You're a practicing artist and you want to paint/draw me, nude or
not!---[UPDATE: I'm really interested in working with artists of
any level! I'm trying out for a live art modeling guild next month
and I want some practice exploring creative poses]
-You'd like us to learn something from each other
-You're open minded and want to befriend an honest, caring
-You want to explore different types of relationships
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