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hwiley

26 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 19–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:45am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English, French (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Artist
Healer
Exhibitionist
Feminist
Buddhist
Kinky
Sex-positive
Poly
Performer

I'm concerned about big issues--like dismantling modern imperial capitalism/patriarchy. But I also know how to enjoy the simplicities of life.

Things I really love:

Environmental ethics
Social justice
Eastern thought
Playing music
Yoga
Books
Spinning fire
Laughing from the heart
Fresh veggies
Tea
Having discussions
Trying to hypothesize solutions to the many world crises
Watching sunsets
Meditating
Watching sunrises
And the list goes on...

I always welcome a dance party--whether on the dance floor, a living room, an elevator, or any place with funky tunes--it's just so good for your soul!

*****Also, I currently identify as polyamorous. If you message me, please be okay with this!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
As of now, the future seems to hold

reveling in philosophical quandaries
clinical psychology
creating music
continuing my travels
filling life with interesting people
giving love
and
giving thanks
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Empathizing
Inspiring
Listening
Loving
Embracing vulnerability
Giving respect
Making love
Talking philosophy
Oral sex
Conflict resolution
Cooking you dinner
Massage
Acting like a child (with or without other children)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't see how I would know this :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books/articles
-'The Power and Promise of Ecofeminism' Karen J Warren
'Things Fall Apart' Chinua Achebe
-I really love Alan Watts; 'The Wisdom of Insecurity', 'This is It', 'In My Way'
-The zen buddhist text Awakening of Faith
-The 'Tibetan Book of Living and Dying' by Sogyal Rinpoche
-'The Ethical Slut' Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton
-MURAKAMI
-Hemingway, particularly his poems

The list goes on, but that's enough for now yea?

Films
I like to watch documentaries, but also enjoy a well crafted piece of cinema. 5 Broken Cameras, is a very amazing and important film. Some others: Pulp Fiction, Amélie, Almost Famous, City of God, My Life as a Dog, Shawshank Redemption, Spirited Away, Akiro, etc..

Music
Well...you'll just have to ask me. In brief, I like everything from Delta Blues Folk to Deep House to Gypsy Jazz
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love
Sex
Passion
Spirituality
Art
Compassion
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
privilege and the ways I can be an ally to the oppressed
philosophy
anthropology
sex positivity
all the possible ways to love
alternative societies
relationships
polyamory
ways to end oppression

whether humanity is a fruit or infection of the earth
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There are no typical friday nights
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The truth actually will set you free; it's just that so few believe it.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I'm looking for friendships with passionate and independent people. Show me what motivates and inspires you and I'll show you what does this for me! If something more develops out of the fluidity of our interaction, all the better! To me, friendship is the best foundation to any romance.

So message me if..

-Something in my profile resonated with you
-You're interested in or currently practicing clinical psychology
-You want to go climbing (particularly if you need a top-rope partner!)
-You want to spin poi or staff, etc
-Youre into kink and you want to explore it with me
-You're a practicing artist and you want to paint/draw me, nude or not! ;)
-You'd like us to learn something from each other
-You're open minded and want to befriend an honest, caring person.
-You want to explore different types of relationships