I tear apart almost everything I can get my hands on. I've been doing that since I was a child. My most often-used explanation (when I got in trouble) was, "I just wanted to see what was inside!" Actually, some variation of that is probably still the case. Right now I'm tearing apart my 1983 Meecedes-Benz turbodiesel. I've learned a lot about cars that way... and now the windows, locks, and stereo work too!
I'm also one of those sorts of people who think that life shouldn't be taken so seriously. It's only life after all!
As an aside, I think that dating websites are a kind of absurd way to meet people. Dating profiles are, in my opinion, more of a spectacle of contrivance than anything else. Still, it can be at least a bit exciting from time to time so... here I am anyway!