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41 M Petaling Jaya, Malaysia

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–48
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  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Not at all
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), Malay (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm a student of Life. I read a lot. And also laugh a lot. I learn new things for the sole reason that it gives me a good warm feeling inside. I cook. I eat. I travel. I drive for the sake of seeing what I can. I spend time with friends because 70 or 80 years is just too short. I play with my nieces just to remember what family feels like and to remember to smile just because its the right way to live life. Sometimes, I look at the skies and the clouds and the trees and wonder where she is.. the one for me. Then I go back to the business of living, loving and forgiving.

I am healer, futurist, and hopeless romantic
What I’m doing with my life
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I love the feel of a book in my hands as I wander and wonder through the worlds within it. The smell and taste of hot coffee is an optional companion on such journeys although I'm not too fussy. Hot chocolate, Milo and tea would be just as wonderful. I also love the feel of pen on paper (literally) as I write and wait to see what comes out of the experience. Its pretty much like doodling, where your logical mind just takes a break only to be pleasantly surprised at the results a few minutes, or hours, later. Pretty much like walking in the quiet woods only to walk into the dazzling sights and sounds of a magnificent waterfall. Oftentimes I'd read the other "books" too. Those that walk, talk, laugh and cry, and are constantly writing and rewriting their own stories as each day passes. When it comes to people, some say truth is stranger than fiction and I agree. So the next time you're with another person, give him or her your full attention and you'll be pleasantly surprised (or horrified) at what you'll actually find. This works with pets and babies too! And lest you think I lean more towards the organic lifeforms, technology is another of my loves. After all, if you look closely enough, there is a very thin line between the two.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being where I am, contented and at peace. I'm also really good at going full steam ahead, creating a new better future for myself and those around me.
The first things people usually notice about me
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... I don't know. I haven't asked them this question.. hmm...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Anything by the late, great Douglas Adams, Neil Gaiman, Terry Pratchett, the guy who wrote "5 people you meet in heaven", Bill Bryson, HH The Dalai Lama, Krishnamurthi, etc. I also like the autobiographies of Mahatma Gandhi and Lim Goh Tong. And I have a pretty decent collection of business books ranging from management to Selling to Neuro Linguistic Programming. I also love Pachelbel's Canon in D, The theme from "Once upon a time in China", Brahm's Lullaby, "Lady" by Kenny Rogers and "Lady" by John Denver, Anything by Paul Simon, Eric Clapton, Sting and Chris De Burgh, The "Kuch Kuch Hota Hei" soundtrack
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A Sense Of Humour
Inner Peace
The Internet
A Smile
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Specific ways I can make my world and the worlds of those around me happier ones
You should message me if
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you just feel like doing so. One never knows what one really wants sometimes or even why and it doesn't matter really, and when there is a nudge or a hint or a feeling somewhere inside that one should give it a go, then go and give it all you've got! Message me now or later but sooner is usually better than later, is it not? :D