Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you're one of the few brave women on the planet that aren't
afraid to ask a guy out - go for it!
If you are one of the vast majority of women who insist the man
makes all the moves, and defines masculinity as such - good luck
with that, and while you're at it - quit complaining/bragging about
all those unwanted cut & paste messages and pictures of exposed
body parts you receive on an hourly basis.
If the tables were turned - that there were 10 women for every man
online, and that we were barraged continuously with lewd invectives
and nude pictures, the only thing you'd hear from us would be,
I know what an amazing person, devoted dad, and accomplished
careerist I already am. But none of that matters online. Here, it's
all about 'chemistry' (looks), 'passion' (looks), the arbitrary
alignments of vast and sundry solar and stellar bodies deemed
deterministic of social interactions (burning man & looks), and
apparently a lot of yoga.
Well, I am a chemist by trade, passionate about parenting, and I do
yoga. Not proud (of the yoga) - just sayin' I probably understand
more about the universe than your average wheat grass sluppin'
gluten free sand in their furry pants Burner. (They do tend to have
nice abs, though).
If you like pinocoladas, and getting caught in the rain, that's
swell. If yer not into yoga, and have half a brain, I can work with
That all said, My idea of sexy is a whip smart woman with a
gorgeous pair of Ph.Ds - I like big brains and I cannot
Best of all, if you know what it means to be a single parent, with
a big heart and small amounts of free time, I think at the very
least we could have great conversation. Or commiseration, depending
on how that week is going.
Ps, I'm not a paying subscriber so all I can do is say thanks to
all y'all anonymous star senders / flirt flingers. You know who you
are! And I do not...
Pps, I've already traveled the world and lived in 6 different
states and two countries. Wander Lust is in my blood, but I'm going
to sit out the next few rounds of 'Travel Mania'. I'm happy for now
to watch the stars and satellites pass by from my hot tub, thinking
"Oh, The Places You'll Go!"
Cheers, and good luck.