I am always seeking high emotional quality of life in my experiences.
I'm self-sufficient, going somewhere extraordinary in life, enjoying accomplishments, and receiving pleasure through a variety of interests. A couple of my important traits : my absolute independence in thinking, and my strong emotional well-being.
These have led to my sense of life which is thoroughly uplifting.
Even as I've come across a few strange women in life and on OKC, it transpires that the women are the same everywhere (so comforting!) Also, one learns (being a man, which handicaps one) the hard way, that there is a broad structure in the feminine psyche and one must learn to adapt to its simplicity and never be caught in its web of unfathomably complex deceptions. And to preserve sanity and mental agility, and to be able to focus on other areas of life that are very interesting, picking the right woman to relate to becomes a challenge. After all, it can not exactly be avoided. As most men, I'm inexorably and almost helplessly drawn to the cynosure of womanhood. Testosterone, I love you!
I don't get into anything blindly, or with exemplary foolhardiness, but seeking the very best out of anything pushes me to the edge and well beyond many times. Having the trust and alertness to go ahead absolutely devoid of diffidence, and possessing the emotional fortitude to be self-preserving have kept me not just alive but positively thriving most of the time. Yet true romancing of an epitome of femininity has been largely elusive. Hey, there is still time...I'm not dead yet!