Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Authenticity, Integrity, and Purpose are critical for me. I look
for independent minds to relate to. Hopefully one of those with
creativity, femininity, brimming enthusiasm, and emotional
expressiveness is here somewhere.
I am always seeking high emotional quality of life in my
I'm self-sufficient, going somewhere extraordinary in life,
enjoying accomplishments, and receiving pleasure through a variety
of interests. A couple of my important traits : my absolute
independence in thinking, and my strong emotional well-being.
These have led to my sense of life which is thoroughly
Even as I've come across a few strange women in life and on OKC, it
transpires that the women are the same everywhere (so comforting!)
Also, one learns (being a man, which handicaps one) the hard way,
that there is a broad structure in the feminine psyche and one must
learn to adapt to its simplicity and never be caught in its web of
unfathomably complex deceptions. And to preserve sanity and mental
agility, and to be able to focus on other areas of life that are
very interesting, picking the right woman to relate to becomes a
challenge. After all, it can not exactly be avoided. As most men,
I'm inexorably and almost helplessly drawn to the cynosure of
womanhood. Testosterone, I love you!
I don't get into anything blindly, or with exemplary foolhardiness,
but seeking the very best out of anything pushes me to the edge and
well beyond many times. Having the trust and alertness to go ahead
absolutely devoid of diffidence, and possessing the emotional
fortitude to be self-preserving have kept me not just alive but
positively thriving most of the time. Yet true romancing of an
epitome of femininity has been largely elusive. Hey, there is still
time...I'm not dead yet!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
It should not be difficult to imagine that I'd have had many
unhappy times in the corporate world. Yet, I gave it all I had
until a few years ago. Then I made a move to de-link, cut off and
run from that hell to strike out on my own.
It was a bold, stupidly risky,
jumping-into-the-void-without-a-parachute kind of move.
It was also the best decision of my life!
Now I'm pursuing my own business interests commensurate with my
deepest grasp of life and all that it entails!!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Business, Technology, Having fun!
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm easy to approach and talk to.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love all of Ayn Rand's writings, fiction and a ton of
I've been fond of stories since I was a kid. I've not read much of
fiction for the past 20+ years. I watch movies and TV shows, mostly
Action, Adventure, Drama, Comedy and Romantic Comedy genre, with
one important qualifier: the main characters must exemplify at
least reasonable levels of intelligence and integrity, as they go
through the plot-theme-storyline.
I relate to music almost entirely at an emotional level, where
music is evoking a sense of confidence and sensitivity, with some
interesting musical nuances in place. I do not relate much to the
lyrics; only to the emotion conveyed by the singer. So, I'm open to
almost any music from Classic Rock to Smooth Jazz and more.
I cook. Not a terrific cook or anything, since it is mostly of
necessity. All lacto-vegetarian. It is the kind of food I grew up
on and that's basically my choice. Nothing political. People should
decide and eat whatever they must.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Independence in life
Entertainment (in many forms)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Business, Software Architecture & Engineering, Visual Design,
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hmmm...Fixing dinner and some television.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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If you'd come closer, I could whisper in your ear.
You should message me if
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You were somewhat enthralled by the brief glimpse into my psyche.
And the idea of engaging me appeals to you, at both intellectual
and emotional levels.
Or, if I messaged you, you must have the courtesy to respond.
Who are you looking for?
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