I am, and shall always remain a dork.
I want this:
"It's that thing when you're with someone, and you love them and they know it, and they love you and you know it... but it's a party... and you're both talking to other people, and you're laughing and shining... and you look across the room and catch each other's eyes... but - but not because you're possessive, or it's precisely sexual... but because... that is your person in this life. And it's funny and sad, but only because this life will end, and it's this secret world that exists right there in public, unnoticed, that no one else knows about. It's sort of like how they say that other dimensions exist all around us, but we don't have the ability to perceive them. That's - That's what I want out of a relationship. Or just life, I guess."~ Frances Ha
"I didn't know her. She didn't know me. Just because I tasted her cum and spit, or could tell you her middle name, or knew what records she liked; that didn't mean anything. That's not a connection. Anyone can have that. Really knowing someone is something else. It's a completely different thing. And when that happens, you won't be able to miss it. You will be aware. And you won't hurt or be afraid." - Adam, Girls.
+My current outlook on romance:
+What that outlook turns into after some Moscato:
+I'm hoping to find someone that makes me feel like this:
+Or, if I'm lucky, I'd love to find someone who makes me feel like this:
+This would be a soulgasm. You know, without the adultery:
+I just noticed how female driven my outlook on romance seems given the videos I posted. While I am a sucker for a good romance film, I also understand that any male equivalent of the videos I posted would be far more heteronormative than these selections. In any case, they resonate. I am that guy with the beard that would wear that slightly problematic "This is what a feminist looks like" shirt. Equality for the moral win. Also, I listen to Bikini Kill a lot. Riot Grrrl (actual spelling) bands are heaven.