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i_am_Allan

56 Washington, DC Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 38–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 15
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Judaism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius
Education
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Portuguese (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a Jewish Hippie Tantrica Communitarian Brazilian American Libertarian Vegetarian 6’2” eyes of blue, long brown hair and beard, Non Smoker.

Synchronicity is my theme. I find I generally have an inordinate number of coincidence and overlap with everyone I meet. In mathematical terms, I'm what's known as a weak link/ readily available for connection.

I prize honesty above all. I constantly strive to see life as it is; in the manner of a fair witness as in " Stranger in a Strange Land". I agree with Heinlein's concept of personal responsibility in love and relationships. Compersion is my guiding light in how and whom I love. I am polyamorous (together, not apart) with an essential need for commitment to ride the rough path to coexistence. I want us to share and choose life’s risks and pleasures together, both emotional and physical. I wish for someone to want my happiness as much as I want their’s. I want to dream together. I tend to live quietly amongst the extremes. I have many wonderful lifelong friends around the world that I often visit as well as extended family.

Having been told I'm a closet monogomist, I must make a clarification regarding my understanding of Polyamory. Having been "cheated on", I never wish to repeat the experience or cause someone else to know that misery. People are naturally interested in others at various times and to varying degrees. Polyamory creates an avenue for emotionally safe exploration while allowing each individual the clarity to invest or retreat as they want and there is no loss of love, dignity, or self esteem. In such an honest environment, we grow closer as we discover our own range and abilities without suffering loss.

I want a Jewish woman that values honesty across the spectrum. I want you to be committed to joint decision-making and open to sexual exploration within our mutually predetermined choices. I want to travel together, to Rainbow Gatherings, Pagan festivals, and new places around the world. I want us to be primary.

I want you to want me. In you and with you.

Allan
(202) 222-5643

I am guiless, faithful, and warm
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Adventuring
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Fixing things
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm told regularly that my appearance differs from my nature.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Tom Robbins, Richard Bach, Princess Bride, NPR, Whatever is in reach, Mind Twisters, Forro; Chorinho, Vegetarian-Vietnamese-Thai-Soul-Jewish-Outdoors
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Travel, Talk, Intimacy, Friends, Family, and Love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Asleep
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The light of day cleanses all shame. Where should I start?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you share any of my inclinations and would like any level of relationship from sophic discourse to eternal bliss.
If you like me, you should call me. (See above)