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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 6
5' 0" (1.52m)
Body Type
Working on Post grad
Wants kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
You want to sit up straight. You want to hold your head a little higher. You want to reach up and pluck the goodness of your life, because you think you'll like the way it tastes. They say that we're so limited, words fail so often, science talks back to itself every other week. We're trapped inside our skin.

But you: you have two eyes, ten fingers, and ten toes to dig in the sand. The tongue has 10,000 taste buds, you say, and smell is the only sense that goes directly to the brain. That's why coffee lets you remember everyone you've ever had it with. And no spreadsheet in all the world can say how a soft, thick towel feels when taken from warm sunlight.

You say this truth not because it helps you find yourself but because it helps you find your friends. You have reason and emotion and imagination and intuition and how rich, how amazingly rich is your experience? Do you know how amazingly intricate and incomprehensible and vital is every single day?

Consider this moment: you will never feel this way, this precise combination of ways, ever again. You, just you, are the music of a multitude. That's why you get up and go to work, you never quite know what might happen, or what songs the day might bring. You could talk to someone, someone at a checkout, and before you know it you're in Mali. That's why you're here: not because you're lonely or would find completion, but because you'd love to share the wonder of the symphony of ordinary life.

So go ahead. Write back, Skype, call. That's why you're here: you're in the world and the world is alive and you are alive.

And the conversation starts today.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
"Well, the real passion's science fiction. This theology and philosophy bit, that's just to pay the bills." ;)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
waiting. You'd be surprised what's on the other side of emptiness.

Hint: It's power. Lots and lots of power. Seriously, there are like transformers and towers and this really big coiling thing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a quick and ready smile. I want to make everyone's day a little bit better. I have broad shoulders. I've shaved my head. People look at me and think I must be smart. I think it's the glasses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Brothers Karamazov, the Gospel of John, Anam Cara, Midnight's Children, The God of Small Things, Magnolia, Snow Falling on Cedars, No Country for Old Men, The Shawshank Redemption, Me and You and Everyone You Know, Parks and Recreation, Community, The Wire, Game of Thrones, Battlestar Gallactica, Futurama, Criminal Minds, Luther, the Mentalist, Elementary, Metallica, Tool, Slayer, Our Lady Peace, Live, Beth Orton, Trio Medieval, Aimee Man, the Decemberists, Bob Dylan, Johnny Cash, Dido, and for food I like almost anything
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends
My faith
My mom and dad
the outdoors generally and hiking specifically
my sense of wonder and curiosity
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to live life, how to love God, how to love my friends, how to love those I do not know. It's a short list, but they're all pretty complicated!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, which for me right now means reading for class. You can get a lot done on a Friday night. If not that, then watching one of the many wonderful shows and movies on Netflix.
You should message me if
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you find your life to be odd, unexpected, occasionally tragic and - most frequently - hilarious.