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i_am_designgirl

47 Los Angeles, CA Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:00pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English, French (Poorly), German (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
creatrix, visually oriented, slightly clumsy (even though I've
taken ballet, pilates, done yoga, can ski a black diamond run on
corn snow in -0 degree weather, have been known to bike 100 miles
in a day, have run a few rapids in my time, and have a
motorcycle license but sadly no motocycle) individual who finds the
following interesting, important or tasty:
aesthetics ~ appreciating differences ~
architecture ~ art ~ agarswood (aloeswood / oud) ~ being a human
being, not a human doing ~ big hugs ~ books ~ breath ~
bread ~ candlelight ~ cats & dogs ~ cheese ~ cocktail
olives and onions (with or without cocktails) ~ coffee and tea
~ collaborating ~ color ~ comparing notes ~ cooking ~
creating ~ curious minds ~ dancing ~ decorating ~
design ~ dressing up ~ eating and drinking with friends ~
elegance ~ exercising and socializing ~ farmers markets ~
fluffy snow ~ fresh lemon water ~ furniture ~ generosity ~ good
packaging ~ good smells ~ graphic design ~ hiking ~ hot
monogamy
~ illuminated manuscripts ~ intelligent people ~
june gloom ~ kissing ~ lavender and rosemary ~ letterpress ~ lists
~ love ~ loyalty ~ misty days & rainy nights ~ making out ~ motorcycles (vintage) ~
museums and libraries ~ my kitty's belly ~ nurturing ~ one step at
a time ~ order ~ outdoors 'n indoors ~ passion ~ photography ~
positivity ~ power tools ~ reading ~ reading aloud ~
respect ~ savory over sweet ~ seeing the sunrise ~
shooting stars ~ shopping for food ~ simple living ~ sleep overs ~
smelling fresh earth ~ snuggling ~ strange plant formations ~
style over trends ~ stomping in puddles ~ the desert & the mountains ~ tankless water
heaters ~ thoughtfulness ~ travel ~ urban decay ~
urban explorations ~ waking up next to the person I love ~ watching hummingbirds build their nest ~ well
manicured toes ~ yoga ~ zebra wood
Being a complex individual, these items are subject to
change.

I am articulate, sassy, and thoughtful
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
living it
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
investigating
turning daily occurrences into adventures
organizing
shelf building
random hula-hooping and happy dancing
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that I am truly interested in people and things, "you are very different from your twin!"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Certifiable book-worm ~ favor fiction that makes me think ~ art, design and fashion magazines ~ Helen MacInnes ~ Isabelle Allende ~ Camus ~ Herman Hesse ~ Barbara Hodgson ~ Gabriel García Márquez ~ Peter Mayle ~ Remarque ~ Neal Stephenson ~ Taschen books ~ Leon Uris ~ kids books "Going to the Getty", "Onion Journey" ~ LAPL ~ Peter Hoeg ~ Geraldine Brooks ~ Orhan Pamuk

Films/Movies: really enjoyed "Begin Again" - indie ~ art house ~ Sundance ~ action thriller ~ chick-flicks ~ james bond ~ original over re-makes ~ Italian New Wave Cinema ~PBS Mystery/Masterpiece Theatre

Music: depends on your mood, no? another list:
70's & 80's ~ afro-cuban ~ Ali Farka Touré ~ alt-Country ~ Andre Williams ~ Angelo Badalamenti ~ Antibalas ~ Arcade Fire ~ bajafondo ~ Bartok ~ Bebel Gilberto ~ the Beguiled ~ Billy Bragg and Wilco ~ Blasters ~ bluegrass (some) ~ Bossa nova ~ Buena Vista Social Club ~ Cabaret Voltaire ~ Carmina Burana ~ celtic ~ Cesária Évora ~ Cheb i Sabbah ~ Chemical Brothers ~ Crystal Method ~ Dave Brubeck ~ Dead Can Dance ~ Deep Forest ~ disco ~ electronica ~ Fela Kuti ~ Femi Kuti ~ folk (some) ~ funk ~ Gillian Welch ~ Gipsy Kings ~ Groove Amanda ~ Hildegard von Bingen ~ Iris DeMent ~ James Hunter ~ Jean-Luc Ponty ~ Johnny Cash ~ Jose Gonzales ~ Karsh Kale ~ KCRW ~ Kraftwerk ~ Krishna Das ~ Kuder and Dorfmeister ~ Les Negressess Vert ~ lounge ~ Lucinda Williams ~ Massive Attack ~ the Mavericks ~ Medeski Martin & Wood ~ Midival Punditz ~ Miles Davis ~ Nick Lowe ~Nonesuch label ~ NPR ~ Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan ~ Ofra Haza ~ Ozomatli ~ Pink Martini ~ Propellerheads ~ R. L. Burnside ~ reggae (some) ~ rockabilly ~ Ry Cooder ~ Shirley Bassey ~ Six Degrees label ~ Stereo MCs ~ Steve Earle ~ Stevie Nicks ~ Thievery Corporation ~ Tinariwen ~ trance ~ tribal ~ Verve Remixes ~ Woody Guthrie ~ Yello ~ Youssou N'Dour

Food: food positive ~ anchovies ~ an amazing burger ~ artichokes ~ french ~ italian ~ middle eastern ~ oysters with lemon and horseradish ~ roasted root vegtables ~ sashimi ~ sushi ~ steak ~ veggies with garlic black butter ~ whisky
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
learning ~ books ~ inspiration ~ my family (including my kitties and friends) ~ a home base ~ good design
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
a lot of things, my mind never shuts off ~ density and mixed used ~ historic preservation vs renovation ~ home renovation ~ traveling in the middle east, turkey, north africa ~ what makes love work ~ what it would be like to do partner yoga
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
where I am supposed to be
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
nope nada nothing
You should message me if
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you find me intriguing.

I believe in the melding of true love, partnership and friendship: I know couples who have exactly that, and it's a wonderful thing. Knowing someone has your back; playing and laughter; taking delight in each other's company; having someone to go out with and to come home to; experiencing the freedom that accompanies an amazing relationship; being in the process of building an awesome life with a partner; offering each other support when needed...that's what I am looking for.

Looking for a life partner, not a hook-up or a boy-toy. No judgement if that's your thing, but that's not me.