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48 Los Angeles, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40-58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:00pm
Relationship Type
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
Might want kids
Has cats
English, French (Somewhat), German (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
creatrix, visually oriented, slightly clumsy (even though I've
taken ballet, pilates, practice yoga, can ski a black diamond run on
corn snow in -0 degree weather, have been known to bike 100 miles
in a day, have run a few rapids in my time, and have a
motorcycle license but sadly no motocycle) individual who finds the
following interesting, important or tasty:
aesthetics ~ appreciating differences ~
architecture ~ art ~ agarswood (aloeswood / oud) ~ being a human
being, not a human doing ~ big hugs ~ books ~ breath ~
bread ~ candlelight ~ cats & dogs ~ cheese ~ cocktail
olives and onions (with or without cocktails) ~ coffee and tea
~ collaborating ~ color ~ comparing notes ~ cooking ~
creating ~ curious minds ~ dancing ~ decorating ~
design ~ dressing up ~ eating and drinking with friends ~
elegance ~ exercising and socializing ~ farmers markets ~
fluffy snow ~ fresh lemon water ~ furniture ~ generosity ~ good
packaging ~ good smells ~ graphic design ~ hiking ~ hot
~ illuminated manuscripts ~ intelligent people ~
june gloom ~ kissing ~ lavender and rosemary ~ letterpress ~ lists
~ love ~ loyalty ~ misty days & rainy nights ~ making out ~ motorcycles (vintage) ~
museums and libraries ~ my kitty's belly ~ nurturing ~ one step at
a time ~ order ~ outdoors 'n indoors ~ passion ~ photography ~
positivity ~ power tools ~ reading ~ reading aloud ~
respect ~ savory over sweet ~ seeing the sunrise ~
shooting stars ~ shopping for food ~ simple living ~ sleep overs ~
smelling fresh earth ~ snuggling ~ strange plant formations ~
style over trends ~ stomping in puddles ~ the desert & the mountains ~ tankless water
heaters ~ thoughtfulness ~ travel ~ urban decay ~
urban explorations ~ waking up next to the person I love ~ watching hummingbirds build their nest ~ well
manicured toes ~ yoga ~ zebra wood
Being a complex individual, these items are subject to

I am articulate, sassy, and thoughtful
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
living it
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
turning daily occurrences into adventures
shelf building
random hula-hooping and happy dancing
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that I am truly interested in people and things, "you are very different from your twin!"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Certifiable book-worm ~ favor fiction that makes me think ~ art, design and fashion magazines ~ Helen MacInnes ~ Isabelle Allende ~ Camus ~ Herman Hesse ~ Barbara Hodgson ~ Gabriel García Márquez ~ Peter Mayle ~ Remarque ~ Neal Stephenson ~ Taschen books ~ Leon Uris ~ kids books "Going to the Getty", "Onion Journey" ~ LAPL ~ Peter Hoeg ~ Geraldine Brooks ~ Orhan Pamuk

Films/Movies: really enjoyed "Begin Again" - indie ~ art house ~ Sundance ~ action thriller ~ chick-flicks ~ james bond ~ original over re-makes ~ Italian New Wave Cinema ~PBS Mystery/Masterpiece Theatre

Music: depends on your mood, no? another list:
70's & 80's ~ afro-cuban ~ Ali Farka Touré ~ alt-Country ~ Andre Williams ~ Angelo Badalamenti ~ Antibalas ~ Arcade Fire ~ bajafondo ~ Bartok ~ Bebel Gilberto ~ the Beguiled ~ Billy Bragg and Wilco ~ Blasters ~ bluegrass (some) ~ Bossa nova ~ Buena Vista Social Club ~ Cabaret Voltaire ~ Carmina Burana ~ celtic ~ Cesária Évora ~ Cheb i Sabbah ~ Chemical Brothers ~ Crystal Method ~ Dave Brubeck ~ Dead Can Dance ~ Deep Forest ~ disco ~ electronica ~ Fela Kuti ~ Femi Kuti ~ folk (some) ~ funk ~ Gillian Welch ~ Gipsy Kings ~ Groove Amanda ~ Hildegard von Bingen ~ Iris DeMent ~ James Hunter ~ Jean-Luc Ponty ~ Johnny Cash ~ Jose Gonzales ~ Karsh Kale ~ KCRW ~ Kraftwerk ~ Krishna Das ~ Kuder and Dorfmeister ~ Les Negressess Vert ~ lounge ~ Lucinda Williams ~ Massive Attack ~ the Mavericks ~ Medeski Martin & Wood ~ Midival Punditz ~ Miles Davis ~ Nick Lowe ~Nonesuch label ~ NPR ~ Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan ~ Ofra Haza ~ Ozomatli ~ Pink Martini ~ Propellerheads ~ R. L. Burnside ~ reggae (some) ~ rockabilly ~ Ry Cooder ~ Shirley Bassey ~ Six Degrees label ~ St Germaine~ Steve Earle ~ Stevie Nicks ~ Thievery Corporation ~ Tinariwen ~ trance ~ tribal ~ Verve Remixes ~ Woody Guthrie ~ Yello ~ Youssou N'Dour

Food: food positive ~ anchovies ~ an amazing burger ~ artichokes ~ french ~ italian ~ middle eastern ~ oysters with lemon and horseradish ~ roasted root vegtables ~ sashimi ~ sushi ~ steak ~ veggies with garlic black butter ~ whisky
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
learning ~ books ~ inspiration ~ my family (including my kitties and friends) ~ a home base ~ good design
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
a lot of things, my mind never shuts off ~ density and mixed used ~ historic preservation vs renovation ~ home renovation ~ traveling in the middle east, turkey, north africa ~ what makes love work ~ what it would be like to do partner yoga
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
where I am supposed to be
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
nope nada nothing
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You find me intriguing. If you want to "like" me, reach out and send me a message! (I cannot see likes; it would be sad if we missed the connection of a lifetime!)

I believe in the melding of true love, partnership and friendship: I know couples who have exactly that, and it's a wonderful thing. Knowing someone has your back; playing and laughter; taking delight in each other's company; having someone to go out with and to come home to; experiencing the freedom that accompanies an amazing relationship; being in the process of building an awesome life with a partner; offering each other support when needed...that's what I am looking for.

Looking for a life partner, not a hook-up or a boy-toy. No judgement if that's your thing, but that's not me.