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i_am_divergirl

46 / F / straight / Single

San Francisco, California

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Sign_Language (Poorly)

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I am kind, witty, and adventurous.

My Self-Summary

Let's see.. I love to travel, and have been quite a few places, many of them to scuba dive (NOW the name makes sense!).. like Indonesia (the best!!), Belize, Thailand, Catalina.. At the same time, I can be a real homebody (true to being a Cancer, I guess, though I don't put too much weight on such things). I'm warm and caring and tend to have a few close friends instead of a lot of aquaintances. I read all the time, mostly fiction, though I get into non-fiction periodically and read a lot by Steven Jay Gould at one point. I just finished "Until I Find You" by John Irving - a truly odd but interesting book. I'm taking a lindy hop class and love to dance. If I'm sitting and not reading I'm probably knitting - just finished a baby hat for a work colleague. I'm the middle one of 5 kids, so if you've ever studied birth order that tells you a lot -- I can basically get along with anyone (though I don't always choose to!). I lived in San Francisco for years and am currently in Marin - not sure for how long, though I love the open space here and enjoy going out for walks or hikes or getting out on my mountain bike. I think kayaking is great fun, too, but haven't done all that much of it yet.

I’m really good at

listening, dancing, words (word games, Scrabble, etc.), reading, knitting, getting along with kids

The first things people usually notice about me

Not sure - probably that I look younger than I am. Other that that I must also have a "girl next door" thing going a bit because I've got quite a few "you remind me of...." kind of reactions. After a while, they realize I have a sarcastic sense of humor and that if you look at my eyes in the right light they're not just brown, but flecked with green and sometimes gold.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Favorite Books: The Unbearable lightness of Being, A Prayer for Owen Meany, The Bluest Eye, Stones from the River, so many more..

The six things I could never do without

Kindness

Travel/adventure

Curiosity

Chocolate

My cats

Dry socks ;) - especially after a scuba dive!

On a typical Friday night I am

who ever thought there was a "typical" Friday night?

You should message me if

You're kind and sincere but not TOO serious. I can definitely be silly and you should be able to be too, just not all the time! I also think I would be most compatible with someone in their late 30s or 40's (my last LTR was 38).