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i_am_dougman

35 / M / Straight / Single

Brooklyn, New York

His Details

Last Online
May 20
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
4.1.13 April has arrived. Hallelujah...
Anybody out there want to play some tennis?

3.19.13 been away for awhile... but i have returned... got myself a nice handsome haircut that makes me look pretty damn stylin' if i may say so myself

Anybody want to go for a nice wandering stroll in the city? This is my favorite of hobbies.

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2.12.13 lincoln's birthday AND mardi gras on the same day... wow. who wants to party?

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((oh this all feels so contrived...))

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Looking for a fine young lady who understands that our truest art medium is our daily lives (the art medium of the day)... looking for a chill type of lady who likes to brainstorm ideas and projects.

If you meet any one of these requirements, then perhaps it would be an expansive experience to share some time.

Perhaps there will be a romantic spark, perhaps not. We'll just consider that a bonus.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently I am in teaching high school which is a wonderful challenge.

I have a number of side projects. Por ejemplo, I sell books, small chapbooks. I also work on jobs that strengthen my skills. I love service jobs because i genuinely enjoy serving others and nurturing them, if but for only a few minutes.

As plato said, "be kind, for everyone is fighting a battle." I tend to think that we are fighting - so very often - the very same battle.

And because of this, i am devoted to understanding the emotional mind of the human and understanding the complex relationship within each one of us between this emotional mind and our rational mind.

(message me for a link to my writing)
I’m really good at
making people laugh
helping people to remember to s l o w the f d o w n in l i f e
beekeeping
writing essays and poems
listening
helping keep small family businesses viable
managing a greenhouse with 10,000 heirloom tomatoes
cooking with excellent spices
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I am currently finishing a book on the medicinal benefit and cultural history of some of the most amazing spices - cardamom, ginger, pepper, cinnamom, etc

Historical fiction inspires me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Extremely variable... local bar chilling, cycling around the city, dancing, at home writing
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You are curious. You like to laugh. You can drop some knowledge.

You are looking for a man who knows how to treat a woman.