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61 • San Francisco, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 45–65
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 10:49pm
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Strictly anything
- Other, but not too serious about it
- Graduated from masters program
- Rather not say
- Strictly monogamous
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
- Likes dogs
I was married for 18 years to a really wonderful woman, but unfortunately that relationship ended. I have two adult sons, the younger of which is living with me until he graduates from SF State next summer.
Music - many types of music but tend towards electronic: ambient, down tempo, deep house, funky breakbeat. I listen to Groove Salad and Beat Blender on SOMA FM a lot. I love Macklemore as an emerging hip-hop artist. The guy is amazing.
Poetry - unfortunately contemporary poetry is so fragmented I think every published poet only has about 150 readers. I regularly scan the shelves at City Lights looking for interesting contemporary poets.
My desert island poets:
Daisy Fried (former Poetry Editor for the New York Times)
August Kleinzahler (San Francisco's most famous poet few have heard of)
Other poets I have recently read:
Rumi - in the Arms of the Beloved
Andrea Gibson - The Madness Vase
Susan Goldsmith Wooldridge - Poemcrazy (book about poetry)
David Orr - Beautiful & Pointless (another book about poetry)
Maureen McLane - Same Life, My Poets
Stephen Crane - Complete Poems
Elaine Equi - Voice-Over, Click and Clone
David McGimpsey - Li'l Bastard (the only book on this list I didn't like)
Tracy K. Smith - Life On Mars
Michael Ondaatje - The Cinnamon Peeler
Lots of non-fiction, lately a lot about the fashion industry, sewing, artists (Hockney, Richter), watercolor theory, science. Kleon - Steal Like An Artist. The Snuggie Sutra (I actually did read this, but borrowed it from a friend. Yeah, that makes it OK) .
China Melville - The City and the City
Dave Eggers - The Circle
Aldous Huxley - Point Counter Point (I love English/Irish writers of the last century: Huxley, Waugh, Greene, Donleavy, Maughm, Lowery, Wodehouse, etc.)
Outerlands takes reservations now!!
Some tools. I have to build things to keep my sanity
iPad - sad but true
Walking shoes that aren't running shoes, like chukkas or leather boots. Chuck Taylor's in a pinch.
Fountain pen and Clairefontaine paper
Really good olive oil and balsamic vinegar
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