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i_am_heartly

62 San Francisco, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 45–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Intelligent, fun, funny, with a spiritual side. I have a big heart and big shoulders and try to always be emotionally honest. I am the most loyal person you will ever meet. Looking for life's next adventure!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I finally have the space in my life to pursue a startup high tech business I've dreamt about for a long time - and it is funded too! My latest passion is quad roller skating, especially indoor dance skating -it is so fun! Other than that I love living in SF and frequent the many food, drink, and art venues in the city.

I was married for 18 years to a really wonderful woman, but unfortunately that relationship ended. I have two adult sons, the younger of which is living with me until he graduates from SF State next summer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, craft cocktails, listening, and traveling without getting stressed. I am also very good at shopping for the woman in my life and I notice my gifts end up being used for a long time. I will understand your style and find the perfect purse, silk scarf, perfume, or jewelry for those gift giving occasions. Shoes are harder, but black slingback Louboutin's are always appropriate don't you think?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My female bestie says "I would say an amazing warm hearted person with a fabulous ROI". I like to dress nicely and you will never see me in mom jeans or running shoes. I also like to wear a scarf in chilly SF and have a large collection. Unfortunately, I also hear "You look a lot younger in person than your photos". Treacherous cameras!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Movies:
Cohen brothers
Woody Allen
Wes Anderson
Sofia Coppola

Music - many types of music but tend towards electronic: ambient, down tempo, deep house, funky breakbeat. I listen to Groove Salad and Beat Blender on SOMA FM a lot. I love Macklemore as an emerging hip-hop artist. The guy is amazing.

Poetry - unfortunately contemporary poetry is so fragmented I think every published poet only has about 150 readers. I regularly scan the shelves at City Lights looking for interesting contemporary poets.

My desert island poets:
Daisy Fried (former Poetry Editor for the New York Times)
August Kleinzahler (San Francisco's most famous poet few have heard of)

Other poets I have recently read:
Rumi - in the Arms of the Beloved
Andrea Gibson - The Madness Vase
Susan Goldsmith Wooldridge - Poemcrazy (book about poetry)
David Orr - Beautiful & Pointless (another book about poetry)
Maureen McLane - Same Life, My Poets
Stephen Crane - Complete Poems
Elaine Equi - Voice-Over, Click and Clone
David McGimpsey - Li'l Bastard (the only book on this list I didn't like)
Tracy K. Smith - Life On Mars
Michael Ondaatje - The Cinnamon Peeler

Lots of non-fiction, lately a lot about the fashion industry, sewing, artists (Hockney, Richter), watercolor theory, science. Kleon - Steal Like An Artist. The Snuggie Sutra (I actually did read this, but borrowed it from a friend. Yeah, that makes it OK) .

Fiction
China Melville - The City and the City
Dave Eggers - The Circle
Aldous Huxley - Point Counter Point (I love English/Irish writers of the last century: Huxley, Waugh, Greene, Donleavy, Maughm, Lowery, Wodehouse, etc.)

Food
Outerlands takes reservations now!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Art
Some tools. I have to build things to keep my sanity
iPad - sad but true
Walking shoes that aren't running shoes, like chukkas or leather boots. Chuck Taylor's in a pinch.
Fountain pen and Clairefontaine paper
Really good olive oil and balsamic vinegar
Roller skates
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
(Still working on this...)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Since Friday night is preceded by Monday through Thursday, I am usually pretty low key on Friday night and much more active Saturday and Sunday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It's actually pretty amazing! I'll tell you as soon as we meet!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You would like to meet or check me out further. I am a pretty outgoing person that enjoys meeting people, so I'll spend a half hour with someone without having to go through a lot of messaging.

If you Like me, I will message you.

Although it doesn't seem to happen much on OKC, girls can message guys. It's 2015 and our next president will be a woman!