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40 M Kīhei, HI

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:42pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them

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My self-summary
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I love to touch and be touched, whether physically or emotionally. To feel connected is very sacred to me. I am more introverted than outgoing, but am very friendly. Friends say I am a good listener, and genuine. I love to laugh, but appreciate silence also. I adore kids. Among one of the many paths I've walked, once upon a time I was a pre-school teacher. Love watching Maui sunsets... please take a look at a few of my pics in my Maui Sunsets album!
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a hard worker, and own a small business. So, I don't really have much time to go on dates, perhaps that is one of the reasons I am on here. I enjoy cooking, and going out to eat, too! I love sampling ethnic cuisine. I work out 3 or 4 times a week, and meditate often.
I’m really good at
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The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile and my dimple. Also, people in Hawaii think I'm a local, but I was actually born on the mainland!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books that have made an impact on me:
"The Alchemist" by Pablo Coehlo
"Goodnight, Moon"
"The Runaway Bunny"
"The Road" by Cormack Mccarthy
"The Little Prince" by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
"The Spiritual Dimensions of the Enneagram" by Sandra Maitri
"Waking the Tiger" by Peter Levine
"In and Out the Garbage Pail" by Fritz Perls
"The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" by Stephen Covey
"Blink" by Malcolm Gladwell
The Dark Tower series by Stephen King
"Dune" by Frank Herbert
"To Kill a Mockingbird" by Harper Lee
"The Missing Piece" by Shel Silverstein

In no particular order, movies I can watch over and over again and never get tired:
the original Star Wars Trilogy
Raiders of the Lost Ark
The Matrix
7 Samurai
The Usual Suspects
Office Space
The Shawshank Redemption
The Princess Bride
The Notebook
I heart Huckabees
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
Full Metal Jacket
Forrest Gump
Kill Bill
Planes, Trains, and Automobiles
Fight Club
Miller's Crossing
Finding Nemo
The Warriors

I don't own a TV, like to watch shows on Hulu. Love "True Detective"

In general, I try to eat whole, non-processed foods, but I also love going out to restaurants and trying anything ethnic. Are there any Ethiopian places on Maui??
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The support and love of family and friends: A no brainer

Living in integrity: If I can't have peace in my own heart, how can I offer peace to you?

Sunshine: More, please.

My car: While great in theory for me, I'm not hardcore enough to bike everywhere I go.

A peaceful sanctuary: I need quiet time to recharge my batteries.

My iPhone: Well, of course I could do without it, but I wouldn't *want* to!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Authenticity: How to be in the world with harmony and still be true to myself.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't have a typical Friday night!
You should message me if
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you're done playing games. If you value honesty and integrity and are definitely looking for something long-term, but would like to take things slowly, I'd love to hear from you!