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i_am_mr_brian

33 / M / gay / Single

San Francisco, California

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Law / Legal Services
Income
Kids
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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I am mellow, nice, and looking for answers.

My Self-Summary

Simple and easy-going guy with nothing to prove here. Recently separated and living in SF now, so just looking to make some new friendships and see where things go. Not closed off to the idea of dating, but it's definitely not the end game for being here.

What I’m doing with my life

Right now I'm doing the corporate thing at a ridiculously large law firm downtown (don't worry boys, I'm not a lawyer). I'm still waiting for that life-changing moment in the shower when I'm shampooing my hair and have the epiphany of what it is I'm supposed to be doing with my life. In the mean time, I'm just trying to make sense of recent events that have inserted both tragedy and triumph in my life. New friends to share in life, happiness and success are always welcome. That being said, I am often very busy with work and other life obligations, but always try to find time for a healthy work/life balance. I hope you do as well.

The first things people usually notice about me

My smile. It's my secret weapon in the war on other people's bad moods. Used solely at my discretion!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Much to the chagrin of my dear friend who owns a book store, I openly admit that I don't read much (there, I said it). I generally find even the most revered books to be dull, and I lack the attention span and time to follow through. That being said, I'm not an ignorant moron and do apprise myself of happenings in the world and such :)

I have lots of favorite movies from across the spectrum, everything from big dumb car-chase-sorta flicks to thoughtful dramas... all the way down to sappy chick flicks and cliché gay cinema.

I guess it should come to me as no surprise how many veggie or vegan guys there are in SF. I personally admire the dedication and challenges it takes to effectively (and healthily -- CHEESEitarians don't count!) manage such diets, but they aren't for me. Dating a veggie boy would be a challenge for us both in all likelihood. Some of my favorite foods are Thai, Japanese, Italian, Pizza, etc. I'm a simple boy, so don't get your feelings hurt if I push my Swiss Chard or Tofu around on my plate :)

The six things I could never do without

- my iPhone (say what you will, haters...)
- a few nice people to call my friends
- a soft bed
- MUNI
- pizza
- humor

I spend a lot of time thinking about

lots of super-top-secret government projects i'm working on. buy me dinner and i'll tell you all about them.

On a typical Friday night I am

As comfortable spending a night on the town as I am spending a quiet night at home.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I sometimes buy the outfit from the mannequin. Not great with fashion.

You should message me if

You're intelligent, friendly, reasonably well-adjusted and happy. Everything else is negotiable from there.