Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
It's been forever since I've updated this thing so I'm going to
give it a half-assed attempt.
I'm 25 and living in Portland. I'm a shipbuilder at Bath Iron
Works...hoorah for a shitty economy and our military industrial
complex. I've always sort of loathed the title of "butch" but I
think I'm finally beginning to embrace it...although I still think
oriented myself more as androgynous or gender queer than anything
else. Labels, labels, labels. Ugh.
Like I said, half-assed attempt. If you'd like to know more then
feel free to message me. Also in the spirit of full disclosure I
should mention that I have an amazing partner. We have an open
relationship but we're not looking to meet people together. If
you're not into that sort of thing that's cool, I'm down to meet
new friends...and if you are interested in that sort if thing,
that's even better!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've done a bunch of things from washing dishes, grassroots
organizing, painting, building ships, and construction. I'm a jack
of all trades and a master of none. I'm also a godmother to a
beautiful little grrl named Kinsey who means more to me than
anything else in this world.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being sarcastic. Fishing. Painting things. Making an ass out of
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My piercings. My tattooes. After that probably my attempt to mask
my true introverted self....that results in a certain level of
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: there are far too many to list so here are a few...
Written on the Body (and Jeanette Winterson in general)
Running With Scissors
Possible Side Effects
Slaughter-House Five (I love Kurt Vonnegut)
Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep
the 5th element
the nightmare before christmas
and also some non-bro movies, too.
Man vs Wild
Anything riot grrrl
the Moldy Peaches (and Kimya Dawson's solo stuff)
My Morning Jacket
Nine Inch Nails
Yeah Yeah Yeahs
...i could go on, and on, and on, and on....
Give me pad thai or a burrito any day of the week
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
3. my backpack
4. my friends
5. my little sister
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Strange, obscure, science fiction-y sorts of things like the nature
of reality. String theory. Other dimensions. Reincarnation.
Afterlife?. Religion. Spirituality. Enlightenment. Waking vs. dream
worlds. Human consciousness. Conspiracy theories. Big Brother. The
end of the world. Ancient astronauts. the sumerians, mayans,
egyptians and hopi indians. Energy work. Holistic healing.
You know...stuff that everyone thinks about, really. But mostly I
just think about how to be a better human.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There's a good chance I'm in Portland with my friends at a local
bar but it'd be nice to maybe do that around Brunswick once and a
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've got scars on my wrists. I'm fatter than I'd like to be. And my
nipples are pierced. How's that for private?
I’m looking for
- Ages 21–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You live near me. (I don't really need a new pen-pal) You are
opinionated and enjoy debating (I love gaining new perspectives
even if I don't necessarily agree). You wanna talk about aliens or
ghosts or bigfoot with me! (...the fastest way to my heart) Or if
you just happen to think that we might get along. I try not to
judge and I'm pretty open, so go for it!
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