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26 F Portland, ME

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 21–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 4
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Dropped out of university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
It's been forever since I've updated this thing so I'm going to give it a half-assed attempt.

I'm 25 and living in Portland. I'm a shipbuilder at Bath Iron Works...hoorah for a shitty economy and our military industrial complex. I've always sort of loathed the title of "butch" but I think I'm finally beginning to embrace it...although I still think oriented myself more as androgynous or gender queer than anything else. Labels, labels, labels. Ugh.

Like I said, half-assed attempt. If you'd like to know more then feel free to message me. Also in the spirit of full disclosure I should mention that I have an amazing partner. We have an open relationship but we're not looking to meet people together. If you're not into that sort of thing that's cool, I'm down to meet new friends...and if you are interested in that sort if thing, that's even better!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've done a bunch of things from washing dishes, grassroots organizing, painting, building ships, and construction. I'm a jack of all trades and a master of none. I'm also a godmother to a beautiful little grrl named Kinsey who means more to me than anything else in this world.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being sarcastic. Fishing. Painting things. Making an ass out of myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My piercings. My tattooes. After that probably my attempt to mask my true introverted self....that results in a certain level of social awkwardness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: there are far too many to list so here are a few...
Written on the Body (and Jeanette Winterson in general)
Whipping Girl
Running With Scissors
Possible Side Effects
Slaughter-House Five (I love Kurt Vonnegut)
Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep
The Giver

the 5th element
the nightmare before christmas
edward scissorhands
12 monkeys
pulp fiction
fight club
ghost world
the sleepers
and also some non-bro movies, too.

River Monsters
Destination Truth
Man vs Wild

Anything riot grrrl
Elliott Smith
Arcade Fire
Hank Williams
the Moldy Peaches (and Kimya Dawson's solo stuff)
Aimee Mann
Patsy Cline
Flaming Lips
My Morning Jacket
Tori Amos
Nine Inch Nails
Ani DiFranco
Lucinda Williams
Johnny Cash
Modest Mouse
Yeah Yeah Yeahs
Neko Case
...i could go on, and on, and on, and on....

Give me pad thai or a burrito any day of the week
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. music
2. art
3. my backpack
4. my friends
5. my little sister
6. bourbon
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Strange, obscure, science fiction-y sorts of things like the nature of reality. String theory. Other dimensions. Reincarnation. Afterlife?. Religion. Spirituality. Enlightenment. Waking vs. dream worlds. Human consciousness. Conspiracy theories. Big Brother. The end of the world. Ancient astronauts. the sumerians, mayans, egyptians and hopi indians. Energy work. Holistic healing.

You know...stuff that everyone thinks about, really. But mostly I just think about how to be a better human.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There's a good chance I'm in Portland with my friends at a local bar but it'd be nice to maybe do that around Brunswick once and a while too...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've got scars on my wrists. I'm fatter than I'd like to be. And my nipples are pierced. How's that for private?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You live near me. (I don't really need a new pen-pal) You are opinionated and enjoy debating (I love gaining new perspectives even if I don't necessarily agree). You wanna talk about aliens or ghosts or bigfoot with me! (...the fastest way to my heart) Or if you just happen to think that we might get along. I try not to judge and I'm pretty open, so go for it!