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i_am_sjay

63 / F / straight / Single

Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 2" (1.57m).
Body Type
—
Looking For
Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and very serious about it
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am a DOer, compassionate, and adored by cats!.

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My Self-Summary

I am always busy doing something....whether it is volunteering at the free clinic, working the front desk at local swing dances for my daughter, having dinner with friends, toddler wrangling for friends and family, etc. No matter what I am doing, I have FUN! Would like you to join me?

What I’m doing with my life

Work for a few more years and then....FREEDOM! Or at least partial freedom...but of my own choice. I am happiest when I am active and I like to surround myself with people with positive attitudes.

I’m really good at

listening, cooking, having fun, being creative, organizing, and ummmmm...being a really good friend.

I must be good at giving hugs. Everyone always wants one from me!

The first things people usually notice about me

my height or lack there of
my weight (more than a few people have told me I look pretty good for my age)
my eyes
my humor

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Movies....hmmm...since I am always wrangling...(see above)...animated movies are what I see most often....but I am always up for a good comedy or yeah, yeah, I know...you guessed it...I like the typical chick flicks! :P

Music....I like a variety of music but this gal is definitely not into gangsta rap or stuff like that...probably no surprise there.

Food...anything that does not have garlic in it. :(

The six things I could never do without

kids
cats
friends
family
Valerie
maybe you? :) (crosses fingers)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

How I want to spend the rest of my life and how I need to plan my finances to make sure it can happen according to my preferences.

Where can I find my next good cup of coffee...or glass of GOOD dark beer!

On a typical Friday night I am

Typical? Not in my life!

But I do work the dances for my daughter on every second Friday....

Ummm....dinner out at a restaurant, seeing a live band, with friends at a wine bar, at a local festival or fair, helping my daughter make decisions on what to do with her home renovations. Why the lavender living room?? Kids!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

no...let's talk first and see if we should go from there.

You should message me if

You are nice, open minded, intelligent, look handsome in a tool belt and ?? surprise me!...but in a good way please! :)

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