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i_am_skam

21 / F / straight / Single

Houston, Texas

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Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5' 0" (1.52m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
—
Sign
Taurus but it doesn’t matter
Education
—
Job
—
Income
—
Kids
—
Pets
—
Languages
English, Chinese (Okay)

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I am complex, realistic, and human.

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My Self-Summary

I'm the type of person who likes to keep things "real." I don't like to sugar coat things and don't like false facades. I have what most people call a thick armor. I'm kinda jaded by my life experiences. So it's difficult for me to take anything at face value. I like to meet people but am afraid to approach them. I love to try new things and open to new experiences. I love to dance, sing, go out, laze around the house, watch tv, walk around aimlessly, and lots of other things I'm sure.

Although I cannot think of anything else right now so...

This isn't a very adequate way of describing who I am so if you want to get to know me feel free to contact me.

What I’m doing with my life

right now I'm just trying to figure out my life. Moved to Houston in January and am just trying to find direction w/ out the constraints of familial guilt. lol. I am one of the many people out there at my age who haven't figured out what I want to do with my life. I've lived a life dictated by my family so don't hold it against me if I'm feeling my way out.

Life right now is just geared toward working.

I know going back to school and graduating is very important to me and a must with my life.

I’m really good at

being me.

The first things people usually notice about me

I don't really know.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I love to read. But most people would laugh at my taste though. heck i even laugh about it. lol.

I enjoy most movies but not scary ones because they freak me out but I do like ghost shows. Go figure.

I enjoy almost all types of music. But I do tend to gravitate to popular music w/ a great beat. Music is food for the soul.

I LOVE food. nuf said.

The six things I could never do without

family
friends
laughter
food
internet
time

not necessarily in that order though

I spend a lot of time thinking about

very random things. a lot of what ifs and their consequences seem to be the dominant thing usually...

On a typical Friday night I am

depends on what kind of Friday I want to make it. I could be at a bar chilling and talking with friends or at a club partying it up. Or I could be at home watching a movie or tv... lots of possibilities

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

...remember those books i mentioned...yeah...i like trashy romance novels...lol

You should message me if

if u would like to.

if you think u can get past my defenses. i'm a tough cookie. lol

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