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i_am_sumrtime

30 / F / straight / Single

San Diego, California

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Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am sarcastic, loyal, and intelligent.

My Self-Summary

There are things I hate: orange tic tacs, people who can't drive, people who misuse their/they're/there or your/you're, chocolate cereal, those damn Peeps in any size, shape or color. I hate it when it's so hot outside you can't think.

There are also things I love: photography, reading a good book, hiking, yoga, a good glass of wine, dancing like a fool, tattoos, news bloopers, potato rolled tacos, free museum Tuesdays, and coffee. Man, how I love coffee.

What I’m doing with my life

I teach Middle School English. Can you handle it? ;)

I’m really good at

I can hold my own in Scrabble.

I have a calendar in my brain.

I can read nearly any handwriting.

I can untie impossible knots.

And you know that bubble game on the Wii play? I am awesome at that.

The first things people usually notice about me

When you first meet me, I am warm, kind, and open. I will do more listening than talking.

And, while that IS me, once I know you better, I am more likely to be a bit snarky, to be hard to shut up, and to be opinionated. But still warm, kind (if you don't take yourself too seriously, anyway) and open. :)

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I love Thai food. I am vegetarian.
I love anything Vonnegut. Other favorite authors include Douglas Adams, Orson Scott Card, Gregory Maguire. The most recent book I read was Good Omens. It was hilarious and I can't believe I have lived this long without it. I am now reading A Long Way Gone.

Music is mostly in the indie/alternative range, but not all stuck-up-I-drink-PBR-and-think-I'm-better-than-you-indie. Just enjoy a good show, and have, in recent years, enjoyed the experience The Casbah brings much more than the experience a large arena show brings. Last concert I went to was Heartless Bastards at The Casbah, and it was freaking amazing, even though it was the 4th time I've seen them.

The six things I could never do without

Books. Coffee. Saturdays. Music. Conversation. Alone time.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Work, if we're honest. Teaching is like that.

I also spend a lot of time wondering why people are so stupid.

On a typical Friday night I am

Generally, Friday is Happy Hour night. A drink with some friends, but not a late night. Then home for maybe some DVR'd TV, or a movie, or my book and some kitty time. For me, Fridays are EXHAUSTING, so I want to unwind, but not go crazy, typically. Crazy is for Saturday. :)

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I read profiles backwards (from the bottom up)

You should message me if

You are smart and funny and tolerant. If you can manage passable grammar and spelling (no need for perfect, but really, people). You are fairly kind. If a game of Scrabble in a coffee shop sounds like a good date to you.