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49 Los Angeles, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:56pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A friend describes me as...

Sweet. Kind. Loving to the core. Loveable. Yogi. Smiling. Happy. Healthy. Honest. Beautiful heart.

Add to that someone who is very intense and mysterious when he wears black.

I am looking for a mature woman for evenings of dinner, drinks, and casual conversation. I have a very strong presence and would like to meet those needs with a similar woman.

I am in a time in my life where my devotion is to my work. I've come out of two intense relationships. One where my partner died. I'd like a light playful relationship for now.

You - 40-55 YO

One who enjoys the pleasures of life. Professional woman or successful independent. Funny. Able to laugh at herself. Confident in the workplace and/or with yourself and really good at what you do. A disciplined hedonist who also enjoys her own independence, Spiritually oriented yet not consumed by it. Honest, confident and direct. One who has gone through personal loss and has come out the other side a better human being.

Me – 50 YO Male with beautiful grey hair. Handsome, intelligent, healthy, attractive 5’9 180LB with Greco-Roman like body. Nice shoulders, strong arms and legs. I am sex-positive, have a kinky side and like being dominant in the bedroom. This is my perspective and, yes, I am the real thing. I have practiced yoga for over 20 years. I know how to stand on my head and stand by my friends when they are in need.

Again, I have an intense and strong presence.

I like to

1) enjoy my time with intelligent women.
2) connect with characters and people who interest me.
3) be a disciplined hedonist : )
4) go to hot springs.
5) sleep in clean, silk sheets.
6) fly in Stearman Biplanes
7) Go to farmer's markets in whatever city I visit.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Building a men's clothing line, finding and writing content for it's website. Lining up books for publication, producing intimate TEDx and TED like salons, tandem skydiving when I get to have the chance, learning to cook, gym-ratting 5 x a week and facing challenges as they arise.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Letting people be who they are.
Making kick-ass pesto sauces
Leaving people feeling good

I have an unfailing belief in my ability to make things HAPPEN. I do not let fear of failure make my decisions for me
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I am Intensely relaxed, that I layer my clothes well and that I have good energy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Anything by Tom Robbins and Buckminster Fuller, early Steinbeck. "Self Reliance" by Emerson, cookbooks, anything by Rumi or Hafez, To Kill a Mockingbird, Frances Hodgson Burnett's "The Secret Garden", Argo, The Avengers, Abel Gance's Napoleon, Fearless, Pleasantville, The Fisher King, The Adventure of Baron Muenschausen (pretty much anything by Terry Gilliam), UP, The Philadelphia Story, Rio Bravo, The Searchers. Most Preston Struges, Billy Wilder and John Ford movies,

Music - a lot of old school stuff. Sinatra, Peggy Lee, John Coltrane. movie soundtracks, Beatles "'Revolver" album, Blasters, Elgar's Enigma Variations, various showtunes, "The Music Man" , Van Morrison's Astral Weeks, Queen, Ditty Bops, Krishna Das, Annie Lennox, Johnny Cash, Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan, Les Paul, Henry Rollins KCRW show on Saturday nights

I love Italian and Mexican food. I make mean variations of pesto and a good steak
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good lovin'
Buckminster Fuller
Drinks at Musso and Frank
Events that are more than serendipitous
Dreams and a good nights sleep.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Future connection and partnership with an equally larger-than-life woman, how to grow my business and how to market my productions. Where do I want to travel to in the future. What can I do to have fun. Enjoying my time as my business moves towards it's success. How to make my business work. How to respond to others.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical Friday night
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have not worn a watch nor locked my door for the past 25 years.
(Actually I have probably locked my door about 25 times)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are emotionally mature, know how to have fun, comfortable with your masculine side, ask for what you want, want to be held by a strong man, have a positive outlook on life, are responsible for your own actions, have large appetites and would enjoy being in the presence of a funny, intelligent, and attractive man.