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i_am_tambam

27 / F / straight / Single

Milwaukee, Wisconsin

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 3" (1.60m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Scorpio and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Clerical / Administrative
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Kids
Has children
Pets
Languages
English

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I am short, wondefull, and yummy.

My Self-Summary

My name is Tamara and here are some random facts about me. I am a seeker and often find myself restless - and have a lot of questions about life. I am most comfortable when I am far away from home. Also, quite passionate and easily tempted. My impulses sometimes get me into trouble. I like to say I am the best at everything ... and strive for perfection. I try to be confident, authoritative, and aggressive. I have been told I am not easily intimidated and want my life to be exactly how I want it and knock down anyone who gets in my way. (not true) I believe I try to be wild, crazy, and a rebel. I wish I had more energy, and I know I can be way too intense. I am definitely a handful and a lot of trouble. But my kind of trouble can be lots of fun!!

What I’m doing with my life

By day I work as a customer service representative, by night I work as a mother, and even later night I try to keep myself entertained with as much as possible, and last but not least on my off weekends I am just trying to have a good time and discover what the world has to offer me, so far its not looking too bad!!

I’m really good at

Well I have few talents that I posses drawing, playing piano, bitching, over thinking, and being too damn sensitive. Some are way more productive then others don't you think?

The first things people usually notice about me

Well it depends on who is looking (male/female) but I will keep it clean and say my hair and my eyes.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I love to read anything by VC Andrews, self help/awareness books (boy do i need them). My all time favorite movies are Pretty Women and Dirty Dancing. I like a big genre of music excluding most rap and country. I like all kinds of food but my comfort food would have to be anything spicy and avocados!

The six things I could never do without

Love, Hope, Dreams, Fantasies, My Children, Humor, and Music (opps that was seven and there are many more)

I spend a lot of time thinking about

See above

On a typical Friday night I am

Well I have my children every other weekend, so if I do have them we usually watch a movie, play games, go various places...ect. On my off weekends I am just enjoying time with friends and just having a fun time!