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i_am_youlian

38 / M / straight / Single

New York, New York

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently), French (Okay)

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I am on okcupid, feverishly searching, and failing miserably.

My Self-Summary

... should not be pathetic, miserable, trivial, boring, arrogant, insulting your intelligence, irrelevant, pretentious, exaggerated, grandiose, stupid or useless.

But invariably it will end up falling into at least one of the above categories ...

An impossible optimization problem, it seems ...
Now in French
C'est la fin des haricots. Et vraiment... Les carottes sont cuites.
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What I’m doing with my life

... is spending it in vain, while hoping for better.

I’m really good at

... not finding a match here on okc, also recently I have been good at being creepy and most recently I am good at being cynical.

The first things people usually notice about me

... is that I am tall, wear glasses and exude creepiness. Yay.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

... are most probably not your favorite books, movies, music, and food.

The six things I could never do without

... are lost, and I am still looking for them.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

... why do I spend so much time thinking. Really I should stop doing that, be free at last.

On a typical Friday night I am

... at peace with myself. But that's only Friday nights, at all other times I am quite restless.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

... is that, most probably I am a sore loser, ceteris paribus, solely on the grounds that I hang in here.

You should message me if

... for any family of sets closed under sums there exists an element (of the underlying space) belonging to half or more of the the sets ...
... or ...
... there is a finite upper bound on the multiplicities of the entries greater than 1 in Pascal's triangle ...
... or ...
... every bridgeless graph has a nowhere-zero 5-flow and every bridgeless graph without the Petersen graph as a minor has a nowhere-zero 4-flow ...
... or ...
... the Generalized Continuum Hypothesis below a strongly compact cardinal imply the Generalized Continuum Hypothesis everywhere ...
... or finally ...
... you really want to.

In the end, the choice is yours.