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i_amjtheobscure

36 / M / straight / Single

Brooklyn, New York

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs
Languages
English

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I am Hawkeye, Spiritualized, and funky beat.

My Self-Summary

I will dance (preferably slow, but I've been known to tear it up) with you, hold your hand and/or kiss you anywhere at any time. I look like a hipster and like musical theater but still can hold my own with just about anyone in just about any sport. In my music collection, I have wonderful music you never heard. I can do the same for movies. I'd rather a coffee at a diner with you than a 'drink' at a club with the 'beautiful' people.

I am also moving back to Brooklyn from Philadelphia very, very soon.

What I’m doing with my life

Raising a puppy, making music, enjoying be near my family, wondering what is taking you so long...

I’m really good at

babysitting my nieces, playing a funky beat and hugging.

The first things people usually notice about me

are my shoes? beats me... Oh, if I have one at the time, my beard. It's dark and thick...

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Tess of the d'Urbervilles, Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows, all of the books my father has written

Music: The Beatles, Spiritualized, Nick Drake, Belle & Sebastian, Ride, etc...

Food: pizza, potato chips, bacon...i'm sort of a health nut

The six things I could never do without

Family (4 beautiful nieces), Music (making, playing,
or listening to), Car (a means of escape), Coffee (how cliche
but true), Well-conceived Daydreams. I would add my puppy,
but I could live without her; I just wouldn't like it
much.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

music...

On a typical Friday night I am

out with friends or home with the pup. I'm comfortable with either. I wish I could say playing a show...soon enough though.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I cry quite readily.

You should message me if

You are:

someone who is as silly as she is sexy (my idea of sexy seems to be different than some of my peers) who is comfortable in heels or Vans, a slinky dress or jeans and a t-shirt, a Marc Jacobs' jacket or a hoody etc... You get the picture.

More than anything, a genuine, "somewhat" innocent, bright-eyed sprite (innocent when it counts and not so innocent when it doesn't).