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33 F Singapore, Singapore

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:48pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Might want kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Depending on my mood, i can be fun-loving or just darn serious.
I have to admit somehow i refuse to grow up. Not just yet... there's still so many interesting things to experience.
Fiercely loyal to the ones i love. Am mostly kind to people and animals.
But I'm also pretty principled. If something bothers me, i will speak my mind.

Am pretty urbanised so the only fire i could start requires charcoal, a lighter and fire starter. Totally not Katniss Everdeen though I enjoy sights of the great outdoors but given an option, the preference for the comforts of urbanization prevails (eg hot water at bathing facilities, a toilet with flushing system.... ) Lol.
Every country visited/ to visit has to include both aspects with hints of the arts and possibly a wee bit of the clubbing scene.

I have a thing for architectures and ships. Please don't ask me why. I don't know. Lol.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Hopefully not wasting my life away on unimportant stuff.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting lost on my first day navigating around a new city whenever i travel! *chuckles*
Being real/ upfront :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My dimpled smile or the fact that i do not look like a Chinese Singaporean? ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Too many of every thing!

I enjoy light reads from Totochan to Hunger Games Trilogy to stuff written by Mitch Albom besides bible reading and learning Japanese & Korean.

Other than really scary shows like Rigor Mortis ( which i have regrettably watched and till this day still find scary images popping up) and The American Horror Story ... i enjoy shows ranging from The Walking Dead to Marvel's Shield, Sherlock Holmes to Big Bang Theory, Modern Family to The Grimm, Criminal Minds to White Collar.
Then with e Korean Wave, i enjoy Running Man, Roommate, Return of Superman and the occasional kdramas.

My music preferences includes Christian worship songs to KPop, English Hits and Mandarin songs i suppose.

I probably live to eat. But growing older also made me more watchful of my food intake. So I'm basically on a low carb diet while still enjoying Japanese, Korean, European and Chinese cuisine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
If we are not talking about our basic needs... then they have got to be faith, love and support of family and friends, music, joy and laughter, reading... i enjoy company but i need my regular dosage of me time as well. I'm not keeping count really... cos I'm oh so greedy. :p
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Things i want to do, places i want to travel to and how to achieve my goals at hand etc...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with my family or friends over dinner, having a good laugh. Sometimes checking out clubbing spots if hitting the gym just ain't gonna cut it for me after a rough week at work.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well, I'm extremely smell sensitive. But i guess it's not exactly very private. Bleah...

I think having the intelligence without the arrogance is an attractive quality in men.
You should message me if
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You want to know me more. I'm pretty shy. I dun usually send messages to you first even if we are a 'match'. But i do occasionally remark on something funny you might have written in ur profile cos u r just so funny. ~just so u know.

You can hold a conversation beyond the usual formalities and have u eaten questions. Seriously...*eyes rolling* surely knowing what i had for lunch is not very telling other than ny eating habits...

You are intelligent but not braggy ( it's really an appealing attribute to me) and don't mind sharing your knowledge with a simple but inquisitive gal like me. :)

I will definitely not reply if you do not make the effort to post a picture of yours.
Or if you are currently seeing somebody/ not single / married... seriously, go spend time with your partner, what are you even doing on OKC? *raises an eyebrow