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28 Montreal, Quebec, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 7:13am
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Special Diet
Atheism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
tradition apparently states i must begin this with some sort of statement to the effect that i'm not very good with self-summaries. so here goes - i'm not very good with self-summaries. ahem.

i'm a pretty quiet but often overly excitable type who moved to Montreal for the music scene / the european grungyness (if that makes sense?) and to try and find a bit more of a balance between work, socialising, social causes, research (i have a piece of paper that says I'm an ecologist), and other things i haven't yet discovered in this great city - the last few years have been alternating between travel and working 60, 70 hour weeks to make that travel happen and I'm a bit over that for now and looking for a more relaxed way of being.

i enjoy seeing loud poppy punk bands, body-modification, late night explorations, a beverage or three, critters great and small (well, mostly small) and being in the so-called 'great outdoors', however, according to okcupid, i am a druggy foul-mouthed sexed-up cold-hearted super-indie-kid. go figure.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
fleasearch! its like regular research but with more fleas. not really sure where that will lead or i want it to lead, but its what i want to do now. that and trying to live ethically along the way
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
filling out empty essays apparently. that and financially ruining myself with travel and tattoos.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that i'm not a fish. which is good, because technically they don't exist. which is confusing, but that's what the taxonomy people say.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
very much non-exhaustive list time.

music. the descendent, cocksparrer, the clash, the buzzcocks, early ska, bits of metal, older emo-rock bands like jawbreakers, various other things, and more recently, poppy-electro kind of stuff and positive hip-hop. but pretty much for up anything live if its somewhere with a good vibe

books. 1984, catch 22, farenheit 451, master and margarita, day of the triffids, the importance of being ernest

movies. the boat that rocked, lock stock and two smoking barrels, snatch, up, dr. strangelove, the third man
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
oxygen, metabolic enzymes, various carbon-based molecules, the ozone layer, gravity, combustion processes.

less literally... coffee, critters, bands, the lads and lasses (and non-lad-non-lasses) whom i collectively called friends, my passport, dynamic rope (aka the anti-pancake strand)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how it always seems I'm dragging my feet with getting on with the science thing whenever i hang out with my PhDing friends, but how it always seems that working unrelated odds-and-ends jobs, travelling and seeing bands is a fantastic lifestyle whenever i hang out with my non-PhDing friends. there must be a way to combine those two, possibly by becoming Milo from the descendants.

apart from that, conservation causes, how to combine research with practical "getting stuff done" conservation, predeterminism (i just read war and peace...), the random ways in which you meet people who are important to you, human relationships
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
alive and concious, combusting simple sugars with oxygen in my attempt to raise global CO2 levels... this normally occurs at shows or in friends kitchens over dinner and a bit too much wine
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
not the biggest fan of moths... creepy little buggers
You should message me if
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you want to! or have amazing inside knowledge on local punk bands! or want to hike somewhere! or know how to made chai!
or get over-excited about sentences incorrectly punctuated with exclamation points! or can explain exactly what the hell okcupid is on about when it labels people as "less pure"!?

though importantly, being down with poly and the fact i live with a partner is pretty much a prerequisite