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iamashleym

29 New York, NY Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Aug 11
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I was born in Jersey -- and if you don't know at least one Bruce Springsteen song, I don't want to know you. Spent my undergrad years in Boston, where I honed my (ever-so-slightly yet charmingly OCD) skill of organizing day planners. Seriously, I have a Black Belt in planning. Now I spend my time plotting how I'm going to take over the world one article at a time. I'm tone deaf, but I love music and I'll go to any show I'm invited to (I prefer when there's at least one guitar involved). I love to travel, but work isn't always accommodating when it comes to international adventures, so I spend my off time trying to find new places to explore in the city, camera usually in hand.
What I’m doing with my life
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By day: magazine writer/editor.
By night: figuring out how to get to a point where I can just travel the world for fun.
I’m really good at
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Writing. Photography—I can do wonders with an Instagram filter and an SLR camera. Organizing. Being a friend. Traveling—I have a knack for choosing slightly dangerous destinations (ie. Egypt two months post-revolution, or Iceland post-volcanic eruption). Remembering lyrics from obscure emo songs in the early 2000s, but forgetting every quote from every classic movie ever. I can brew a pretty legit IPA, and I am awesome at the NY Mag crossword puzzles (not so great at the ones on the NYT...).
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I say it like it is. (Or my eyes.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Perks of Being A Wallflower, Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close, Everyone Loves You When You're Dead, Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius, anything Klosterman, Game of Thrones and Harry Potter (yes, seriously).

Music: Bruce Springsteen, Brand New, The Gaslight Anthem, Mumford and Sons, the Black Keys...but it changes constantly.

TV: Lost, Fringe, True Blood, Game of Thrones, The Tudors, Mad Men (plus lots of cheesy CW shows that I say are just for work but...they're not).

Movies: I'll see anything, but I have a soft spot for anything apocalyptic.

Food: I'm pretty sure I could survive on just pizza, but I'm down to try any NYC restaurant once (especially Italian).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music. My friends. My SLR camera. My iPhone (hey, it's got everything). My passport. My imagination.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what comes next (I know, that's a cliched answer, but it's true -- I like certainty). And ridiculous aspects of pop culture (but at least I get paid for that).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hoping my night is anything but typical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a weird fear of revolving doors.
You should message me if
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you've got something to say -- and actually like to make off-line plans to get to know someone.

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