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iamashleym

29 New York, NY Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 3
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Status
Single
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Raised in Jersey, schooled in Boston, living in NYC. I like to travel, the more exotic and different the location from New York, the better.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
By day: writer/editor at a fitness mag (I work out a lot. For work.)
By night: figuring out how to get to a point where I can just travel the world for fun.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Photography.
Packing.
Being a friend.
Remembering lyrics from obscure emo songs in the early 2000s.
Crossword puzzles.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I say it like it is. (Or my eyes.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Perks of Being A Wallflower, Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close, Everyone Loves You When You're Dead, Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius, anything Klosterman, Game of Thrones and Harry Potter (yes, seriously).

Music: Bruce Springsteen, Brand New, The Gaslight Anthem, Mumford and Sons, the Black Keys...but it changes constantly.

TV: SVU, Criminal Minds, Game of Thrones, Scandal, The Following, The Fall...

Movies: I'll see anything, but I have a soft spot for anything apocalyptic.

Food: I'm pretty sure I could survive on just pizza, but I'm down to try any NYC restaurant once (especially Italian).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music.
My friends.
My SLR camera.
My iPhone (hey, it's got everything).
My passport.
My imagination.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what comes next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hoping my night is anything but typical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a weird fear of revolving doors.
You should message me if
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you've got something to say -- and actually like to make off-line plans to get to know someone.