iambertocus
44 San Francisco, CA
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My self-summary
One of the few endangered SF natives. I'm seeking other adventurous spirits to explore this amazing world of ours, hopefully leading to long term. I practice authenticity and authentic relating and hopefully you do too.
What I’m doing with my life
I've left the tech world for something different. I am currently pushing the boundaries of my career into challenging avenues. I go on adventures-- local and far, natural and urban, culinary, cultural, sometimes strange, sometimes extreme.
I’m really good at
Typography
Jeopardy
Snowboarding
Martial Arts
Slowing Down
Making Charts
The first things people usually notice about me
My calm vibe and brightly colored socks.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Hagakure
Authors: Eckhart Tolle, Thich Nhat Hanh, Palahniuk, Murakamai

Movies: I love the act of going to the movies: sitting in a dark room with a giant screen, eating snacks--anything from serious to classic, to foreign, to gratuitous blockbuster. Bill Murray.

Music: I enjoy most genres but my favorites are Sigur Ros, Jawbreaker, Catherine Wheel, Massive Attack and Radiohead

Shows: Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, The Wire

Food: I love culinary adventures but some of my favorites are sushi (omakase!), tacos, ramen
The six things I could never do without
My lucky bracelet
A good pair of boots
A little sketchbook
A daily dose of sunshine
Something with a camera on it
Peaceful walks
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What could I do this moment that I would remember for the rest of my life... Or what my next adventure will be
On a typical Friday night I am
--work out, then relax at home
--meet a friend for dinner
--have an early happy hour and be home by 10
--be ready to enjoy my Saturday morning
You should message me if
You have a passion in your life that has you feel alive.
You're authentic and know how to express your truth.
You want to play full on when it comes to dating, not the typical SF thing where people have one foot out the door, and you want the same from me.
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