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43 San Francisco, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 26
Asian, White, Other
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
One of the few endangered SF natives. I'm seeking other adventurous spirits to explore this amazing world of ours--hopefully leading to long term. I practice authenticity and authentic relating and hopefully you do too.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've left the stereotypical tech world for something different. I am currently challenging my career by exploring and applying behavioral design (for the greater good) while helping grow a fresh company. Outside of that, I go on adventures-- local and far, natural and urban, culinary, cultural, sometimes strange, sometimes extreme.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Martial Arts
Slowing Down
Making Charts
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
How they feel calm when I am around, and that they can tell me anything–random strangers tend to tell me their deep secrets.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Hagakure
Authors: Eckhart Tolle, Thich Nhat Hanh, Palahniuk, Murakamai

Movies: I love the act of going to the movies: sitting in a dark room with a giant screen, eating snacks--anything from serious to classic, to foreign, to gratuitous blockbuster. Bill Murray.

Music: I enjoy most genres but my favorites are Sigur Ros, Jawbreaker, Catherine Wheel, Massive Attack and Radiohead

Shows: Breaking Bad, True Detective, Game of Thrones, The Wire

Food: I love culinary adventures but some of my favorites are sushi (omakase!), tacos, ramen
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My lucky bracelet
A good pair of travel boots
A little notebook or sketchbook
A daily dose of sunshine
Something with a camera on it
Peaceful walks
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What could I do this moment that I would remember for the rest of my life... Or what my next adventure will be
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typical? Probably one of three things:
--go to martial arts class, then relax at home
--meet a friend for dinner
--have an early happy hour and be home by 10

I like to make the most of my Saturdays by not having a late Friday. I've grown out of my all night party phase.
You should message me if
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You have a passion in your life that has you feel alive.
You're authentic and know how to express your truth.
You want to play full on when it comes to dating, not the typical SF thing where people have one foot out the door, and you want the same from me.