I’m friendly, fun, compassionate, passionate woman who is playful and sexy, opinionated, but not judgmental. I’m relatively independent and do enjoy time to myself, yet much prefer sharing my thoughts and experiences with someone else.

I’m easy to get to know and talk to, generally have a positive attitude, don’t hold back when I desire something/someone.

I can't say I know who/what type of man I am looking for. I don't have a particular body type or appearance that appeals to me. Intellect (not necessarily a brainiac), an air of self-confidence, wit and a touch of sarcasm is what I tend to be attracted to. And, he's got to make me laugh. Playful banter is great foreplay.

I have three adult children and grandkids. Politically and socially liberal. Have traveled extensively in the U.S. and some of Europe. Used to camp quite a bit. Now after a couple days, lean more toward a room with a bed and indoor plumbing. Can never get enough of Chicago's lakefront.

Hate to do it, but suppose I must include all the usual profile cliches, because they do apply - I enjoy all kinds of food, music, dancing, theater, dining out, going to movies and watching at home, sharing a bottle of wine or even a couple of beers.

I'm interested in meeting someone who's honest and open about his feelings, not reluctant to discuss what's on his mind. He should be comfortable with his sexuality and appreciate a woman who is too. A man who may have matured in years, but has been able to maintain the ideals and enthusiasm of his youth. He should enjoy the arts and literature, but not too pretentious to admit he spends time at home on the couch with the remote.

Long term relationship or just a good friend with benefits? Not sure, though I would love to find someone I look forward to waking up in the morning with. I don't think any of us would be here if we weren’t searching for friendship, romance, and some excitement in our lives for just the moment, or for the future.

Still trying to figure that out.

Talking to and listening to people.

Most people say they notice my smile.

Books - almost always reading something, mainly fiction.
Movies - watch a lot of them, most genres, though not that into big blockbusters.
Music - fan of rock, jazz, blues, musical theater, appreciate classical, avoid country and rap.
Food - pretty much anything. I love to eat. Enjoy trying new restaurants....all American fare to all types of ethnic.

Of course number one on my list has to be my family...3 daughters, their spouses, my 6 grandkids, parent, sibs, etc. I'm very lucky to have a close, loving family

My computer.... I confess, I'm a chat addict, surfing the web., googling..you name it... I need the connection.

TV - I watch it...I admit it....love cable TV

Microwave....frozen meals, defrost....even boil water...instant gratification

Man in my life.....there are battery operated substitutes, but they only serve a singular purpose

Number 6....I don't know.....and truthfully, other than family (and maybe a man) I could do without the other things. Life would be different, but I'd adjust , after a major withdrawal period, and I'm sure I'd manage to find a way to be happy.

Wishing I didn't think so much.

Tired after working all week, but often find the energy to go out if given an intriguing offer.

I will admit to pretty much anything.......just ask.

If you'd like to chat and get to know me better. Could be the beginning of something good.

No married men, please. I'm not one to judge (lest I be judged), but if we really hit it off I'd like to be a priority in your life. Can't happen if you are married.

I am interested in men who live close by, generally within 15 miles of me. We may have a lot in common, but if getting together is complicated, that's not much fun, is it?

Oh, and one more thing....I'm not really 50. No qualms about my age. My picture is recent. I used that number for search purposes only. For some reason really young guys, not 45 and up, are the ones that hit on older women here. Since I'm interested in meeting someone closer to my age figured what the heck, fib a bit and see who I attract.