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iamdissonance

28 / M / straight / Single

Washington, District of Columbia

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Ethnicity
Black
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Buddhism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am anxious, neurotic, and made of quasers..

My Self-Summary

Let me begin
Feels good 'cause it's early
Ease open my eyes
And let light in

Some ideas we're doing
The radio abides
With flying screams
Old ideas we're doing
Are taking their time

Fine
Let's not hurry
It's our morning
Spread out
-Graze by Animal Collective

I'm a writer obsessed with movies and television, consumed by music, slightly neurotic and cautiously optimistic. I ride my bike pretty much everywhere, have a slight fixation with oceans (or water, in general) and lighthouses.

I had a bit of a spiritual awakening at the Flaming Lips my first time seeing them this year and it has completely changed the way I view my life, and life in general. I love going to concerts, but only at small venues. I was born in DC, but I consider NYC home even though I've only been there a few times.

I also rock lasers. I just thought you should know.

What I’m doing with my life

Writing movies
Making music
Traveling as much as I can
Not letting a job define my life unless it's a job I choose
Waiting for Weezer to write good songs again
Getting to NYC as soon as possible

I’m really good at

Meatwad impersonations, seriously.
Random movie knowledge
Hitting high notes
Writing.
Remembering things no one else does
Singing Animal Collective

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm really quiet and awkward.
My shoulders
My glasses
My lip ring (gone now)
My LOST tattoo

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Everything by Chuck Palahniuk, Angels In America, Invisible Monsters, I Hope They Serve Beer In Hell, The Long Hard Road Out Of Hell, Rant: An Oral Biography Of Buster 'Rant' Casey, The Lost World, Crooked Little Vein, On Writing, Snuff, No Country For Old Men, and yes Fear Street.

Music: Jon Brion, Arcade Fire, Animal Collective, Dirty Projectors, DM Stith, Panda Bear, Pink Floyd, italian giallo film scores, Patsy Cline, Otis Redding, Ennio Morricone, Flaming Lips, Pains Of Being Pure At Heart, The Pixies, Sufjan Stevens, Vivian Girls, Bon Iver, Volcano Choir, Washed Out, Johnny Cash, hip-hop (not rap), J Dilla, Converge, Atlas Sound, Michael Giacchino, The Middle East, Nina Simone, Bjork, Parenthetical Girls, Tom Waits, Yo La Tengo, Innocence Mission, Emmy The Great, Elliott Smith, Dillinger Escape Plan, Bob Dylan, Ani Difranco, Parenthetical Girls.

Check the site for more. [last.fm/user/stereoarcade]

Movies: Pixar, Dawn Of The Dead, American Beauty, Sunset Boulevard, Some Like It Hot, Synecdoche, New York, The Fall, Donnie Darko, Magnolia, Fight Club, 12 Angry Men, Harvey, The Good, The Bad, The Ugly, pretty much everything by Alfred Hitchcock: Rear Window, Psycho, Vertigo, North By Northwest, 80s movies, Billy Wilder, I Heart Huckabees, The Last Minute, anything with zombies, Moon, Waking Life, Dazed And Confused, Pink Floyd's The Wall.
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Tv: Lost, Fringe, Eastbound and Down, Battlestar Galactica, 24, Pushing Daisies, Six Feet Under, United States Of Tara, John From Cincinnati, Frisky Dingo, Supernatural, Glee, Seinfeld, Buffy The Vampire Slayer, Angel, Fringe, Firefly, Being Human, Modern Family, 80s cartoons, the first two seasons of Dawson's Creek, Small Wonder.

Food: Everything bad for you. :( Burgers, fries, pizza, cheese, ice cream, oreos, chocolate chip anything, chocolate milk, 4am pancakes&eggs.

The six things I could never do without

Music, my macbook, books, my glasses, women, LOST.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

New York.
The interconnectivity of life
What the hell is actually happening on LOST.
What happens in a meadow at dusk.
How people perceive things

On a typical Friday night I am

At home, on the computer
Playing videogames
Reading
Hanging with friends
At the movies

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

There's more than one Earth. Shhh.

You should message me if

You know who Sifl and Olly are.
You're addicted to music.
You're into body modification.
You wear pigtails...often.
You like the smell of gasoline.
You read comic books and graphic novels.
You HATE when people talk at the movies.
You want someone who won't stare at your boobs. Too much.
You'd rather be in NYC, sitting in a park people-watching.
You love holding hands and cuddling.
You like a guy who plays with your hair.
You like being completely ridiculous regardless of what anyone thinks.
You like Autumn just so you can buy new hoodies.
You can't wait to hold hands with gloves on.
You're a nerd, a geek, hipster, punk, metal, or "weird."