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22 Bethesda, MD Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20–26
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids
English (Poorly), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Hey there! Thanks for stopping by!

My name's Ben. I'm a Chinese-Jamaican, 2014 college graduate, and DC native working to make positive political and legal change.

In my spare time, I enjoy topical puns, keeping myself healthy and alive, and wandering the District looking for interesting places and things to do.
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently working for a constitutional law nonprofit, working on law school apps for Fall 2016.

Meanwhile, you might find me at a local show, waiting for the metro, or at the store.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Doing voices. Spinning a pencil. Eating. Making bad jokes. Acquiring useless knowledge. Incorrectly finishing other people's sentences. Following recipes. Googling answers to questions. Using an Oxford comma. Planning. Punctuality. Pedantry.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm a giant. Especially at family reunions.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Manufacturing Consent and other Chomsky works, The Conquest of Bread, Debt: The First 5000 Years, Orientalism, A Song of Ice and Fire, The Brothers Karamazov, The Kingkiller Chronicle, Meditations, For Want of a Nail, The Man in the High Castle, others that I'm forgetting right now.

Movies: The Godfather I/II (they only made two), Drive, Snatch, Pulp Fiction, Good Will Hunting, American Beauty, Amelie, City of God

Shows: The Wire, Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, Sherlock, Arrested Development, House of Cards, True Detective,
Music: I listen to a pretty wide variety of genres. Favorite genres include indie folk, melodic death metal, and Romantic-era classical. Favorite musicians include the Decemberists, Typhoon, Yann Tiersen, Iron Maiden, Insomnium, Beirut, Neutral Milk Hotel, Radical Face, and many, many others.

Food: Pretty much anything, I'm a big fan of Greek, Middle Eastern, and Korean especially. And a good street taco is never unwelcome.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Lists
2. Wikipedia
3. Access to a gym
4. A good pair of headphones
5. A cast-iron pan
6. Clothes that fit
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Embarrassing moments from ten years ago. How to improve the world. How to improve myself. Existence. What's for dinner.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a bar with friends in DC/Bethesda. Playing board games over drinks. At a show at the 9:30 club/Black Cat/other concert venue.

These activities are not necessarily mutually exclusive.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I click on "I have read and accepted the terms and conditions" without having read and accepted the terms and conditions.
You should message me if
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If you're looking for a partner in crime. Or a partner in rhyme. Or a partner in...thyme?