Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So we were suppose to do intro posts so here's mine. It's LONG but
I'm worth it. :)
I'm Hector Mercado and I'm 34. I'm going through a divorce that's
the most amicable one known to man (at least without children
involved). I moved to Oklahoma 2 years ago from the east coast.
This has caused me MANY hardships dating here. One I have no kids
and want a family. Many people my age here are totally done with
that aspect of their life. I've even met a few 34 year old grand
parents. The second is I'm an atheist. (No that doesn't mean I
worship the devil. Yes I still say bless you and merry Christmas).
The third is I'm very pro individual rights (IE gay marriage and
I work for a staffing company as a recruiter. I've become very good
at my craft over the past year. I'm remarkably good with children
for someone who doesn't have any. Something about being 15 years
older than my brother and running a group home for 3 years sunk in
haha. I'm super romantic, I like sending cards and flowers and
getting people small tokens of my appreciation. I'm a giant nerd, I
play video games and board games and wanted to go to comic con. My
"perfect partner" would know how to get dressed up and be a great
"plus one". My company has happy hours for major accomplishments, a
Christmas party and a trip that I could win to cancun every year.
I'd love to have someone who's comfortable doing those things. I
don't want to "make you", as a matter of fact I won't. So if you
liked my intro please feel free to say hello. I won't bite, well
Like that kinda thing :p
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I spent 10 years as a cell phone sales person. I was very good at
it and I made good money but I got no time to myself and I was
tired of being a number and not a person. I now work as a recruiter
for a staffing company and I love what I do.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh. I don't care if it's at me, at themselves or
something totally random.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Physically? My eyes are nice I have been told.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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So I guess this is the box that says "Hector is a nerd!". And
that's okay with me! I love Harry Potter, Star Wars, Lord of the
Rings, Comic book movies, Braveheart, and anything (other than
twilight) that is nerdy enough to have a midnight premier.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
GPS- I've lived here a year, I don't know where anything is.
Starbucks- trenta iced coffee w sugar free vanilla 4 Splenda and
cream if you're buying.
Apple- Yes I am one of those, no I will not debate it with
My car- I don't know how people get away without driving
My sense of humor- Without it I would have been driven mad long ago
Passion- My passions may have changed over the years but the fact
that I am passionate has not.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What it will be like when I have a family and why women who are
nerdy aren't more prelivent. We need more!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I usually won't be at the "club". I'd rather be playing board
games, laser tag (suit up!), or just watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am separated. No there is no chance that there will be a make up,
1400 miles of distance makes that hard. The fact that she changed
her mind about wanting kids makes it impossible. I'd very much like
to have a family, and yes if you already have kids that counts
You should message me if
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I honestly think I could rant on this forever. But if you're
looking for a guy who will enjoy your company, understands that a
friendship is the foundation for a strong relationship, has the
ability to make you laugh through your tears and wants to have a
family then what do you have to lose?
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