Message Her

Join OkCupid

Find better matches with our advanced matching system

—% Match —% Friend —% Enemy

iamknotinsane

26 / F / Bisexual / Single

Brooklyn, New York

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 5:12am
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Less than $20,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), French (Okay)

Similar Users

My self-summary
I'm a very simple and modern person. I love meeting new people. I work a lot so it is very hard for me to find any free time at all. I don't like my time to be wasted, however, if I connect very well with the person, I'll put 110% into everything I do. I like it when people can teach me things that I don't already know or enlighten me on their views. I'm a very active person despite the fact I am a workaholic. Institutional education is overrated and I actually enjoy gaining experience in the field through hands on instead. I love conversing about practically anything, i.e.: musical history, lyrical meaning....history....superstition..art...food....and just deep thoughts. No I'm not a hippie or a space case. I happen to enjoy studying people.

I am charming, gentle, playful, analytical, and a terrible hopeless romantic--so sue me, I'm a bit old fashioned for my age.
What I’m doing with my life
At the moment I work long hours but I still find the time to do what I love to do: hanging out with friends, go to catch a great film, go out for dinner, rock climb, play volleyball, and working out.
I’m really good at
Listening, letting people feel mellow and enjoy themselves, cooking, photography, and being a great friend.
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair....I change it so often it's ridiculous. my work ethics....I'm an extreme workaholic...to the literal meaning....seriously, I'm really not joking. Umm....my sarcastic-ness, and heavy dark humor? I have a weird sense of humor I guess? My direct, blunt, and straight forward honesty. And lastly, I may have some delayed reactions due to sleep deprivation.

People at first glance people are intimidated by me, I honestly don't know why...but I swear I am extremely laid back and actually pretty mellow once they start talking to me. I'm usually up for anything and am always outgoing unless I'm drained and need a nap. I'm very nostalgic and can get distracted from reality because of enjoying the moment sort of silliness. And also I am a total geek and nerd. I love numbers, and everything to do with random facts and the original Star Trek, Doctor Who, Synthesizers, Neue Deutsche Welle and film craft history.

I forgot to mention my crazy obsession with soccer, ie: the German National Football team, Mesut Oezil, the EuroCup, World Cup, and Champions League. Also my addiction to Doctor Who, Torchwood, Fritz Lang, Hitchcock, film history, photography, cameras, Neil Gaiman....and Anthony Bourdain.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
anything by Neil Gaiman, anything by Anthony Bourdain, Bizarre Foods.
TV-Black Adder, A Bit of Fry & Laurie, Doctor Who, Torchwood, Bones, The X-Files, Muppets, NCIS, CSI, Rizzoli & Isles, Law & Order, Gordon Ramsay's F Word, No Reservations, Layover, Family Guy, Big Bang Theory, ...etc
movies...ask me...too much....
music...Futurepop, Industrial, EBM, Trance, Techno, Alt rock, Hard Rock, Goth Metal, Neue Deutsche Welle, classical, opera, jazz....dance, ....list goes on
The six things I could never do without
Working out
Books
Music
Sports: mainly Volleyball and Soccer
Cooking
Foreplay (I'm not ashamed to admit.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What sort of little things in life make me feel happy and enjoy my time while I am living. I don't regret or have regrets and I think a lot about life. I'm not one to hesitate in anything, and never live my life thinking about the "could have", "should have", "would have", "what if", or "buts". I'm a driven individual.
On a typical Friday night I am
It depends. I'm usually out and about. If not, then climbing, looking to play volleyball, watching a movie, playing pool, drinking, passed out on a friend's/lover's couch, or at home relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't really do relationships unless it's with someone who really gets me and enjoys me for me. I love foreplay and sex. Call me shallow but I am highly selective with people based on physical and mental features. At least I'm honest about it.

And I'm a switch, for those who know what that means but for the 99.5% of the time, I prefer being domme.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 23–37
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
if you think we click.
I'm silly and you want to know more about me.
Ask me.
A real person who just wants to enjoy a real conversation and not an empty half-assed discussion about nothing.
A Person to hangout with- I'm a pretty active person and am always up for some traveling/hiking/wandering around anywhere when I'm not working or competing in sports.