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49 Minneapolis, MN Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 39–53
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:03am
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
A little extra
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Has kids and doesn’t want more
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I'm smart, fun and friendly, with just the right amount of nerdiness to keep things interesting.

I've been described as both charming and adorable, one could say I'm charmdorable even.

I'm a careered professional who has his financial house in order.

In addition, I like many things including:
- going for walks and chatting
- meeting up for coffee or the occasional adult beverage
- dining out
- cooking, I can make an awesome stew or grill a ribeye to a perfect medium rare
- visiting museums
- riding bikes
- attending the Renaissance Festival (whether in costume or not)
- sipping a glass of Pinot Noir in front of the fireplace on a chilly evening
- and much much more...

I'm looking for a friend, a peer, a companion, a date, a partner, and yes, a lover too. All of that adds up to a pretty awesome girlfriend.

I do enjoy reading your answers to the questions, not just the predefined list of answers, but especially your commentary. Sometimes it's witty, or thought-provoking, or just plain entertaining.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm enjoying the end of summer and arrival of Autumn. I'm in no hurry for winter to arrive, but when it does, I'll be anxious for another Broomball season to start.

I just went to the State Fair and saw Reel Big Fish perform in concert. They put on a great show!

For work, I program mobile devices, iPhones, Androids, etc.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at my work, but that can be very dry to talk about, (anyone care to discuss, object orientation, asynchronous programming or recursion? See what I mean?)

I'm also good at Words with Friends. Are you willing to take me on? :-)

Woodturning is one of my hobbies, I make bowls, goblets and some pretty awesome drop spindles, and I know how to use them.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Generally, my eyes and shoulders, and sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: I like upbeat music like Reel Big Fish, Less Than Jake, The Fratellis, and the Dickies. And occasionally some heavier stuff like Dragonforce or Blind Guardian.

Always a fan of 80's music! Go Gos, Waitresses, Def Leppard, Foriegner....the list goes on

Not a fan of Dave Matthew's Band. To me, he is one of the most talented and creative musicians that leaves me completely uninspired and feeling meh when I hear him sing. But if you like him, I won't judge, might tease you a bit, but I won't judge. ;-)

Books: Lord of the Rings; anything by Patricia McKillip; A Song of Fire and Ice (a.k.a. Game of Thrones); that sort of thing.

Movies: I like most action adventure movies, Marvel in particular, and most anything by Pixar and Studio Ghibli.

Not a fan of the horror genres but if it's important, I can sit through a chick flick without too much complaining. ;-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next play in Words

Maybe I should actually read "To Kill a Mockingbird" as it routinely appears in people's favorite books lists.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On weeks when I don't have my youngest kid, I'll go for walks, catch some Netflix...though I'd rather be cooking burgers on a grill to enjoy on the patio front of the fire pit.

Or I could be out sipping a Scotch at Merlin's Rest.

Care to join me?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I saw the Pixar movie "Brave" by myself...and enjoyed it.

And I'll sometimes dance around the kitchen listening to Fratellis while doing dishes...
You should message me if
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You should message me:
- if you can laugh and have fun doing almost anything
- if you'd like to meet up for coffee or an adult beverage
- if you want to challenge me at Words
- if you just plain feel like it. why the heck not!