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44 Sacramento, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 38–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:06am
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Other, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a little bit hippie girl mixed with postmodern woman. I'm motivated by love, art, and expression.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm an artist so I am always working on something creative--writing, visual art, sewing, embroidery, decorating, crafting, baking/cooking, etc.
I’m really good at
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Creating a beautiful and/or intriguing something
Crewel embroidery
Noticing the subtle and understated
Visual art
Finding stories and connections
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: I adore APTBS and The Dum Dum Girls.
Post Punk and many genres...(glitch, Noise, Noise Pop, twee, doom, nihilistic, Dream, Swedish Pop, space rock/pop, etc.). I also like 60s Folk and Folk revival/American psychedelic (I'd count Brian Jonestown Massacre in that), Classic Cambodian Rock, Classical - Baroque and Early Music.

Literature & film:
Non linear works are my favorites
SciFi plots are exciting
Non Fiction: Women's History, Anthropology, Social Research, Creative Non Fiction, Ethnic Studies, Gender Studies

I Netflix and Hulu: The Walking Dead, Orange is the New Black, Parks & Recreation, Glee, Weeds, Mad Men, The Returned, BBC's In the Flesh, The Mindy Project...

I've been getting into slow cooker cooking and I love it! Made the best Paleo chicken vindaloo this weekend. The best meals are made at home and shared with people you love. Do you cook or are you learning how? It is also a lot of fun to cook together--as a couple, a group of friends, or as a family.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My trusty sense of humor
A safe place to rest
Scent of sandalwood
A shower at the end of the day
The love of doggies
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think often of how new things are always beginning before we can see the evidence of them.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I usually work in my studio on Fridays. I like to cook a meal, hang out at home/with friends, watch a good movie, try a new restaurant or cafe, catch some local art or music, or something else that is casual, relaxing, and enjoyable.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you are:
single, available, and looking for a monogamous relationship
concerned or passionate about causes, people, and things outside of yourself
and you would rather meet in person than be pen pals

Must love dogs.

With all that said, I want to meet someone like no one I've ever met.

Developing friendship is first and foremost. The Match Questions are good to read for an idea of potential compatibility.

P.S. If I see you first and am interested, I'll send the first message. xox

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