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44 Sacramento, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 38–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:49pm
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Other, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of masters program
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I do stuff. I know stuff. I've been places. I've had ideas. Sometimes, I've made those ideas come alive. I've noticed patches of wide open spaces, doldrums, and torrential jungle. I've lived in two different centuries! One time, out of great love, I grew a whole other human inside of me, and then I gave birth ;)! I dream about stuff. I write stuff down. I sometimes use textiles instead of paper/pencil on paper.

How can any moment or day be boring?--I'm excited that there is an endless stream of things I don't know! There are so many sounds I've yet to hear! Have I seen all the colors? Have I touched earth from every continent and island? Have I laughed and sang songs with every human I should have ever known? Is time something that passes or is it that we count back and tick off what we don't currently have? What are the questions we don't even know?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
^I don't want to repeat myself in front of you yet, right?

Recovering from being a corporate cog. Finding the beauty in everything I see/experience. Taking care of things head-on. Creating and living the life I want. Steering clear of folks who value money and the accumulation of things over the value of a life well lived, love, connection, empathy, and natural beauty.

It would be awesome if we meet and discover how much we like each other, but I'm not going waiting around for a partnership to live, love, enjoy my life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Asking questions :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
All the good stuff. Is that kinda vague?

I'm really stuck old school folk (1964, Bob Dylan, etc.) and late 60s psychedelia right now.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The real list or the witty list? Are they different?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What's a question without a question mark?
Is it not rhetorical.

I'll get back to this later...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday's the day after Thursday, right?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're not a total shut-in or you're at least highly functioning and not completely annoying or smelly. LOL Right? We have to have at least that in common and BUILD from there. After that, it is up to you, but keep in mind that I'm gonna ask a lot of questions. Like, are you cute? ;p

I'm not looking for perfection (it is boring and fake), but that mystery spark that can't be predicted.

Also, I don't have access to Likes, so thank you if you've liked me :), but I have no idea who you are.

Did you read my profile? Did you read the Match Questions?