Dudes, while some ladies may feel flattered by all the "Are you down to fuck?" emails, I'm really getting tired of them. Please stop. I don't know if you think chubby girls are an easy lay or what, but I assure you, I do not, nor will I ever, fit into the "easy lay" category. It's demeaning and it makes you look like a complete classless jerk.
And to the other dudes who email me telling me that my standards are too high because I am fat, you have no idea what standards are if you truly believe this. A man, A REAL MAN, will look at my profile, determine that he's not attracted/interested... and then pass me on by. A man doesn't send angry emails blasting total strangers in the internet. That tells me you're more insecure than anything and guess what? Insecure isn't on my list of desirable qualities when thinking about what I want in a partner. Get over it and move on. And please for the love of God, leave me alone to find the man I'm looking for. I don't recall standing in anyone's way as they search for the perfect partner. Adults only please.
Whether or not I choose to respond is also my choice. I have sent several emails that I never received responses for. Guess what I did? NOTHING. I got over it. Again, adults only please. Have some respect for me, as well as for yourself.
Okay, I'm done now. Moving on.
I'm pretty neat. :) I have spent a lot of time being me and it's become clear that I rock at it! I'm educated, talented, funny, motivated, happy, honest, loyal, and extremely easily amused. I'm pretty liberal and am not a participant in organized religion.
I'm looking for love. I'd be lying if I said otherwise, seems people are afraid of that word. But alas, as I am not a liar, it would be cool to meet someone with a similar goal. I'm looking for connection, romance, and friendship. I want it all. We all deserve to find what we're looking for.
That said, I'm not opposed to good friends either. So if you think we'll get along, drop me a line! If I've given you some stars or whatever, rest assured that I enjoyed your profile and in no way should it be construed as a marriage proposal. Please don't get your panties in a twist!!
I gravitate towards happy, positive, non-judgemental people. I've had many opportunities to meet people in all walks of life, and each one shocked me with their experiences and perceptions. One thing I know is that I used to be the kind of person who thought I knew what was best for everyone. Now I know that I know nothing and all I can do is treat people with the kindness and respect that they deserve.
I hope we can all do the same.