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47 F Los Angeles, CA

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 36–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:28pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So I just hit my 20 year mark in the USA ! Crazy.... Time to reflect and see what's next.
Here is a tongue in cheek update on being on and off this dating site a year.
IT'S FUN ! The women who complain that there are no good men in LA go move somewhere else .....REALLY.
There are amazing, honest, kind men all over this city.
Met some of them and yet haven't connected with anyone to take me off the market yet :)
Texting. Can get messy.
If in the middle of a dialogue, finish it or just let someone know that you are not interested. Disappearing then popping up after weeks/months is kinda ? What exactly ?
Clearly, no communication is communication, "I ain't that interested" yet...
It's called manners.
However, When I write that I won't contact everyone yet am still flattered, that means that.......
If you have put on 30lbs, show that. Don't make me troll the bar looking for the hot guy in a flannel shirt....please !!!
Keep it real, I am a believer in honesty about what you are looking for, even if that means you don't really know ;)
If you have dated on line this will hopefully be taken with a grain of humor.
Now with that being said......let's get this show on the road.

I am English, I am still very rooted in my heritage yet love the mindset of the USA.
I am honest. The pics, age, are all current. I am flattered if anyone contacts me and yet I don't want you to think I am ungrateful if I don't email you back, as I know it's not always easy to make the first move....

HOWEVER if your picture is from 1990 and you consider that 'current' or your idea of 'fit' is getting off the couch to get another beer, we may not be a good match !
If you are 22 AND insist on messaging me ...... What women wouldn't be flattered ???

But ...really.... the truth be told I am looking for someone in my preferred age range, handsome and it doesn't have to be in a 'typical' way and in fairly good shape with a great sense of self, that is passionate about having a great life and wanting to share it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Life, it's always changing. I feel like I live many different lifestyles so I am pretty versatile. I love my job, love my friends, love going out, love staying in. Being happy in your own skin and liking yourself is imperative.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Communicating, making people laugh, keeping my word, focusing on the good vs the bad, working.....sometimes too much.
I seem to get along with just about anybody. Eating chocolate.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes are quite blue. I look them in the eyes. My English accent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
blimey .... love a good film. From 'Once upon a time in America' to Crazy, Stupid love' from classics like 'Who's afraid of Virginia Woolf' to 'Raging Bull'.
Ones that come to mind without thinking too hard to be interesting ! 'City Island' was under watched and quite brilliant. 'The Diving Bell and the Butterfly' beautiful film. 'Requiem for a Dream', fantastic and haunting.
Love 'Trainspotting', 'Old School','Wedding Crashers', 'Bridesmaids', 'Silver linings Playbook', 'Midnight in Paris' and 'Ted' is my kind of Humor.

Music, well The English do great music, so I must have good taste :) Rock, Indie, some pop, no country, occasionally R&B, rap if it's like the Beastie boys, old school.
Kings of Leon, Temper Trap, New Order, The Smiths, Queen, The Killers, Keane, Coldplay, Snow Patrol
Arctic Monkeys / The Last Shadow Puppets, Imagine Dragons,
Editors, The National, The XX, Band of Horses. I also love some good 70's/80's stuff, Psychedelic Furs, Bowie, Bryan Ferry and Roxy Music, need I go on ????

Food, I love to go out. I am out 2/3 times a week on average. Love clean healthy food. I do have a sweet tooth though.
I am a pescatarian (fish no meat)

I love to read. I have very varied taste. Some favs, The lovely Bones, Night Circus, The Devil all the time, The hunger games series, I will fess up to reading the whole Sookie Stackhouse (True Blood) series, but to my defense, before the show started.
Fav TV shows this year, Game of Thrones, The Good Wife, Bill Maher, Masterpiece Classics, The Newsroom, Political Animals, The Voice (one and only reality show).
On my list to watch, Breaking Bad (I know, I know, how did I miss it)
Up date : started watching breaking bad.... on season 3.
The Wire.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my family.
my kindle.
my amazon account.
wine,vodka, tequila.
time and travelling with friends (travelling spelt the UK way just saying !).
sane mind.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
just about everything.
Sex, politics, music, future plans, projects, travelling, day dreaming, the less fortunate. If I was a guy would I date me ??? Lol. Seriously.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home typically ..... Saturday is a busy day for me so I am relaxing or with friends at dinner.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My dog ate a condom, pooped it out in Day care, got crazy sick, hospital ...the vet's first words to me... at least someone's getting lucky. Glad to say Lamchop is alive and well, I am $3,000 poorer. True story.

I haven't seriously dated in about 4 years. I used to date much younger men and now am looking for an equal not someone to baby sit !
I say I am looking for something serious and honestly... I am... yet see the value in fun casual sex/relationships also. I am just in a relationship 'space' right now.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are an upbeat, driven person who is happy period.... Are on a path in life that you are happy with the direction it's going. I love a good laugh and love to see live comedy. I also love music and love to see live concerts.
Would love it if you are interested in some fitness activity and take care of yourself. I like to workout and keep in shape..... however a movie or a night in front of the TV is just lovely too.