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My self-summary
So I just hit my 20 year mark in the USA ! Crazy...
My online dating experience so far ... as it's usually one of the first Q's asked.
IT'S FUN ! The women who complain that there are no good men in LA go move somewhere else.
There are amazing men all over this city.
Met some of them just haven't connected with anyone to take me off the market yet :)
If you have put on 30lbs, show that. Don't make me troll the bar looking for the hot guy in a flannel shirt....please !!!
Keep it real, your pics, age, height, I think I will notice if you are 5ft not 6ft !

Cool, now we have got that out of the way:

The truth be told I am looking for someone in my preferred age range, handsome and it doesn't have to be in a 'typical' way, in good shape with a great sense of self, that is passionate about having a great life and wanting to share it.

I am English, I am still very rooted in my heritage yet love the mindset of the USA.
I am honest. The pics, age, are all current. I am flattered if anyone contacts me and yet I don't want you to think I am ungrateful if I don't email you back, as I know it's not always easy to make the first move....
HOWEVER if your picture is from 1990 and you consider that 'current' or your idea of 'fit' is getting off the couch to get another beer, we may not be a good match !
If you are 22 AND insist on messaging me ...What women wouldn't be flattered ???
What I’m doing with my life
Life, it's always changing. I feel like I live many different lifestyles so I am pretty versatile. I love my job, love my friends, love going out, love staying in.
I’m really good at
Communicating, making people laugh, keeping my word, focusing on the good vs the bad, working.....sometimes too much.
I seem to get along with just about anybody. Eating chocolate.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes are quite blue. I look them in the eyes. My English accent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
blimey .... love a good film. From 'Once upon a time in America' to Crazy, Stupid love' from classics like 'Who's afraid of Virginia Woolf' to 'Raging Bull'.
Ones that come to mind without thinking too hard to be interesting ! 'City Island' was under watched and quite brilliant. 'The Diving Bell and the Butterfly' beautiful film. 'Requiem for a Dream', fantastic and haunting.
Love 'Trainspotting', 'Old School','Wedding Crashers', 'Bridesmaids', 'Silver linings Playbook', 'Midnight in Paris' and 'Ted' is my kind of Humor.

Music, well The English do great music, so I must have good taste :) Rock, Indie, some pop, no country, occasionally R&B, rap if it's like the Beastie boys, old school.
Kings of Leon, Temper Trap, New Order, The Smiths, Queen, The Killers, Keane, Coldplay, Snow Patrol
Arctic Monkeys / The Last Shadow Puppets, Imagine Dragons,
Editors, The National, The XX, Band of Horses. I also love some good 70's/80's stuff, Psychedelic Furs, Bowie, Bryan Ferry and Roxy Music, need I go on ????

Food, I love to go out. I am out 2/3 times a week on average.
I am a pescatarian (fish no meat)

I love to read. I have very varied taste. Some favs, The lovely Bones, Night Circus, The Devil all the time, The hunger games series, I will fess up to reading the whole Sookie Stackhouse (True Blood) series, but to my defense, before the show started.
I actually just deleted all the shows I watch as I just cancelled cable..... not too much TV
Tend to get into a series on Netflix or Hulu plus and OD on it.
The six things I could never do without
my family.
my kindle.
my amazon account.
wine,vodka, tequila.
time and travelling with friends (travelling spelt the UK way just saying !).
sane mind.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
just about everything.
Sex, politics, music, future plans, projects, travelling, day dreaming, the less fortunate. If I was a guy would I date me ??? Lol. Seriously.
On a typical Friday night I am
Home typically ..... Saturday is a busy day for me so I am relaxing or with friends at dinner.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My dog ate a condom, pooped it out in Day care, got crazy sick, hospital ...the vet's first words to me... at least someone's getting lucky. Glad to say Lamchop is alive and well, I am $3,000 poorer. True story.

I haven't seriously dated in about 4 years. I used to date much younger men and now am looking for an equal not someone to baby sit !
I am looking for a relationship...honestly... I am... yet see the value in fun casual sex/relationships also.
You should message me if
You are generally an upbeat, driven person who is happy period.... Being comfortable in your own skin and liking yourself is imperative and you are on a path in life that you are happy with.
I love a good laugh and love to see live comedy. I also love music and love to see live concerts.
Dinners, drinks, occasional dancing, movies, hanging out at home all good ( not necessarily at the same time lol)
Hope that you have an interest in some fitness activity and take care of yourself. I like to workout and keep in shape.....