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ibarrarin

44 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:12pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Asian, Pacific Islander
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Management
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Tagalog (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Formerly periodically a transplant from somewhere but keep going back to SF. Love it!

Studied communication research in the Philippines and then went on for more of that in grad school at USC Annenberg and Stanford. Now a consulting director for a global communications firm. I work in communications campaigns/PR measurement, from surveys, media content analysis to social media monitoring. Are you still awake?

Some not-so-random bits:
Am left-handed. My first major in college was Veterinary Medicine. Then I shifted to Interior Design, then I moved on and eventually finished Communication Research. I grew up in a university town in the island of Luzon in the Philippines. Our house was on the foothills of a dormant volcano. The town has hot springs, which let the volcano blow off steam. I go home almost every year. I love my hometown. I was born in Texas, to two hard-working foreign Phd students who come from humble beginnings. I was in some form of a choral group from 2nd grade all the way to Junior year in college. If I had accepted the job, I would've been employee number 5 at eBay. I still have the offer letter. It's yellowing. I don't aspire for riches, anymore. I try to follow Buddhist tenets. Emphasis on "try."

On my night table right now: 3 weeks worth of Sunday NY Times, Velvet Rage, Atlantic Monthly, floss, The Dhammapada, San Francisco Magazine.

I am optimistic, wacky, and naive.
What I’m doing with my life
Work, work, work describes my 20s. Work, fun, work describes my late 30s. "Responsibly going with the flow" is my mantra for my 40s.
I’m really good at
singing (semi-good), dancing (semi-good), making people laugh, getting along with everyone
The first things people usually notice about me
Am funny

I smile a lot

A gentleman... I try to be one to all, always.

Very polite.

Say sorry a lot.

My accent. One former co-worker says I sound like the bidi bidi robot on Buck Rogers. She will say "bidi bidi" as I speak mid-sentence. I am told I should slap her. But no, I love her.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books -- too many, but mostly light fiction like Sedaris. Non-fiction: books on media and communication policy.

Movies: All kinds, but gravitate mostly to indies, drama, comedies.

Music: electronica, jazz, alternative...eclectic, really. Not into heavy metal though.
The six things I could never do without
my laptop,
floss,
ability to laugh at myself,
Hoping for REAL happiness (don't puke, you know you want it) :-)
5.
6.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I try to live in the present.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out having drinks/dinner with friends. Otherwise, home vegging out, catching up with books, unread Sunday NY Times, Netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll tell if and when we meet. And if you ask.
I’m looking for
  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 27–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You're relatively normal and definitely crime-free.
Kindness is sexy.