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45 • San Francisco, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 27–55
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Apr 23
- Asian, Pacific Islander
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Buddhism, but not too serious about it
- Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Rather not say
- Likes dogs
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Tagalog (Fluently)
Studied communication research in the Philippines and then went on for more of that in grad school at USC Annenberg and Stanford. Now a consulting director for a global communications firm. I work in communications campaigns/PR measurement, from surveys, media content analysis to social media monitoring. Are you still awake?
Some not-so-random bits:
Am left-handed. My first major in college was Veterinary Medicine. Then I shifted to Interior Design, then I moved on and eventually finished Communication Research. I grew up in a university town in the island of Luzon in the Philippines. Our house was on the foothills of a dormant volcano. The town has hot springs, which let the volcano blow off steam. I go home almost every year. I love my hometown. I was born in Texas, to two hard-working foreign Phd students who come from humble beginnings. I was in some form of a choral group from 2nd grade all the way to Junior year in college. If I had accepted the job, I would've been employee number 5 at eBay. I still have the offer letter. It's yellowing. I don't aspire for riches, anymore. I try to follow Buddhist tenets. Emphasis on "try."
On my night table right now: 3 weeks worth of Sunday NY Times, Velvet Rage, Atlantic Monthly, floss, The Dhammapada, San Francisco Magazine.
I am optimistic, wacky, and naive.
I smile a lot
A gentleman... I try to be one to all, always.
Say sorry a lot.
My accent. One former co-worker says I sound like the bidi bidi robot on Buck Rogers. She will say "bidi bidi" as I speak mid-sentence. I am told I should slap her. But no, I love her.
Movies: All kinds, but gravitate mostly to indies, drama, comedies.
Music: electronica, jazz, alternative...eclectic, really. Not into heavy metal though.
ability to laugh at myself,
Hoping for REAL happiness (don't puke, you know you want it) :-)
Kindness is sexy.
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