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59 Santa Monica, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 46–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:53pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Okay, you landed here. Thank you!

I'm known as solid, funny, creative... The 'go to' guy. I want to be off this site and in a long term something. So see what you think and what I'm about.

Just bought a pro HD camcorder and full studio lighting to produce and shoot comedy videos for YouTube. A big deal. Could be a side pursuit while keeping the day job. I've been a production company for digital.

Not new to content -- ex-USC Cinema dept. Have a good portfolio and a good eye.

Background: I've been a Creative Director or web guru (on team that put together So I have a geek streak, but am a writer.

I play guitar, have decent vocal chops, and a good sense of rhythm. Which is helpful in other areas :)

Studied film, sociology, social policy... So I'm knowledgeable about some stuff, but also have stocks of useless information that I won't bore you with :)

Thankfully, I tend to know when to lead and when to follow...

My parents were married for 30 years, until my father died. I'm a relationship person, not a dater.

I like local travel and getaways (e.g. Catalina Island) Hole-in-the-wall restaurants can be cool. Hollywood Bowl and McCabes are cool for music.

I have a 16 year old daughter, a clarinet diva who lives with her mom a mile away. She has her own life :( As I did when I was 16. My mother warned, or hexed, me. 'Just wait, you'll have a kid who is like you...' I was more reasonable... But heard from numerous sources that 16 is a tough age for girls. Must it be tough on me? :)

So it would be great if you have a nurturing streak wider than dental floss. The daughter doesn't need it. I do!

Also, I have a unique 5 year-old blotchy tuxedo cat who belonged to the daughter. The cat understands many words, offers up her paw when she wants something, and thinks rolled up pipe cleaners are mice!.

While I would rather not date Dr. Doolittle, I can be the dog and cat whisperer. Conflicted?

Who am I looking for? Bright, funny, attractive, wise, communicative, arty, light baggage... funny? If we click and know each other for a while, I do bring flowers.

If you're arty, but not nuts, that would be a plus :).

Please, no 'I want to travel the world' women.. Seriously, I do travel, but not in retirement mode. I will never go on a cruise on any of those filthy cruise ships. A 80 foot fishing boat is cleaner :)

What do I like to do? Riding bikes, beach volleyball (I used to be good...), plays, movies, museums and art galleries... I can cook, but would prefer to share duties. I'm open to adventure, but I'm not skydiving or rock-climbing. I did a 13 mile trail ride in the mountainous interior of Catalina Island in last August.

Just about whatever you have going on... I will be supportive.. In general, I will have your back.

As a 'homebody with options', I'll often write or play my acoustic guitar. Or I'll pound keys on my Yamaha upright, which wishes someone else would play...

Thank you for reading...

-- Martin (Marty)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
-- I direct and manage large web sites and intranet business applications. And I write.

-- Doing the challenging search for my last relationship. It's not easy. When you're older and single, it's like 'Dating What's Left'. Honestly, I'm 'what's left'. Most likely, you are, too! Here's my old blog, soon to be a full web site, if not TV show:
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Scripting things, comedy, web stuff, writing, being a friend ('go to' guy), photography. Sports involving a ball.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Voice. Tallness. Smile. Boyish look like a kid, I'm told. And have thick hair. Nothing fake. Look like my pics.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Inception, Avatar, The Hangover, Shawshank Redemption, Casablanca, Chinatown, Hurt Locker, Swept Away (original). I'll tear up on Field of Dreams, Forrest Gump and other films. Even Avatar...

Music: Tom Waits, Jay Z, Nora Jones, Green Day, Maroon 5, Dr. John, Springsteen, Coltrane, Miles Davis, Aretha Franklin. Coldplay, Nickelback, Leonard Cohen, U2,

John Steinbeck, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, George Orwell, Fyodor Dostoevsky, Charles Dickens, Toni Morrison...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Food, water, love, music, cookies... not necessarily in that order. I could survive without my iPhone.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to get off this site. That's what the "done part of my dopey screen name is...

Seriously, politics, media, world events, music, people...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Resting from the work week. Playing guitar or songwriting. Watching Bill Maher on HBO. But I can be persuaded to do other things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Nada. later...
You should message me if
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You like what you see and read.