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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24-35
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:52am
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Judaism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
You and I both know that our presence here could mean that we are looking for any multitude of things.

As for me, I'm looking to share my self and my life with someone who I deem worthy and who seems me worthy to do the same. I'm down to share any and all of life's experiences. This could mean travel, food, movies, TV, parties, clubs, chill nights at home, cuddling, cooking, wine, sex, theatre, friends, the gym, family... Whatever.

I know that I am a pretty amazing guy with a lot to share and a lot that I still haven't experienced. If you know that you are amazing too, then we should do something and meet. Could be a drink or coffee, could be a stroll on the highline or even some ice cream. If we are interested in eachother, where we meet won't matter.

I'm not one to message for days or weeks on end. I feel that we will get to know each other in person far faster than via text chat.

I'm independent and enjoy being with those who are as solidly grounded on their own as they will be with me. I take care of myself and it's important to me that you do too.

I have a lot of friends. Some say too many but variety is the spice of life.

Let's spend some time getting to know each other and see what comes of it. You never know unless you try.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work hard and play harder. I just got back from four months of backpacking and scuba diving around SE Asia and Australia. My thirst for life and new experiences has only grown as a result. I do what I can to make each new day better than the day before.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh
Getting the job done
Breaking the silence.
Taking the lead in a tense moment and in general.
Singing (When my voice feels it) lets go to Karaoke and you can judge for yourself. Worst case scenario, we have a lot of laughs.
Trying new things (I'll do anything twice)
Lots of other things that we can talk about in person.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My stature and shaved head. I'm really just a big teddy bear when all is said and done.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I have eclectic taste in music from Electronic to Alternative Rock to Folk Music to Doo Wop. I like pretty much everything but I am not too into Hip Hop or Country.

I LOVE natural foods. I am also a big fan of ethnic and exotic foods. NYC is a treasure trove that I still need to explore more of even though I have lived here all of my life.

I love Mob Movies, thrillers, action and adventure and documentaries. Nothing better than a stupid comedy though. Naked Gun... All time classic. Cult classics, Office Space, Rules of Attraction, Wet Hot American Summer etc..

As far as TV is concerned;It's always Sunny in Philadelphia, Oz, Weeds, House of Cards, Orange is the New Black, American Horror Story, hardcore pawn, Californication, Shameless, Bizarre Foods, Diners Drive ins and Dives, CNN, Dexter, Game of Thrones, Law and Order, NatGeo, Planet Earth, Curb your Enthusiasm, Cathouse, Family Guy, all things Muppets, Archer, and I can't believe that I would ever admit to this... the Lockup marathons on MSNBC are awesome.

I should also mention that watching Bob Ross on PBS puts me in a trance like state.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends and family - this includes pets
Fast paced living though it's nice to settle down every so often
Ethnic foods and eclectic cuisine and enjoying them in their respective countries.
Change of seasons
My car (the freedom that having a car allows)
New Experiences
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What i'm going to eat for my next meal.
Where I am going in life and who it will ultimately be with.
What I am going to do over the weekend.
Where my next trip will be and when is the earliest I can go.
SCUBA diving.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out with friends, on a plane heading home from the week or in a car heading somewhere for the weekend. There are Friday nights where I just want to unwind and do absolutely nothing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am an open book for the most part. Ask me anything you want to know because I will do the same. I'm not shy and hope you aren't either. Honesty is key to the success of any relationship.
You should message me if
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If I appeal to you in a cerebral and/or physical manner.
If you have an open mind and are willing to try new things.
If you smile at least 10 times more than you frown.
If you are independent and have your own interests and friends.
If you want to share your interests.
If you want to share mine.
If you are confident in who you are and who you want to be
If you are looking for that special something that will make your life even better than it already is.
Why wouldn't you?