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38 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:47am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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My last name is Butters. No relation to the South Park character. I know, it's quite disappointing.

I'm a huge fan music. I listen to music a lot, particularly when I'm contemplating things, when I'm out for a walk, and when I'm working or doing things around the house. I love all types of music and I maintain a pretty eclectic iTunes library. In short, music is pretty much the best invention ever. Just my two cents.

October is my favorite month, because the air is crisp and the leaves are changing. It's the perfect time to throw on a sweater and explore the city.

I love to travel and experience new cultures. I just got back from Buenos Aires in September and Dubai in January. I'm heading to Italy next month.

I'm a big sports fan, especially baseball and football. I should warn you though, I'm a Red Sox and Patriots fan. I'm from Boston originally and remain loyal to my teams. I tend to be pretty loyal in general.

I just finished my MBA at Wharton. It was an incredible journey that changed me for the better. I met so many amazing people with whom I'll remain friends for the rest of my life.

I'm a big fan of wine, but I prefer white to red...very manly, I know. I also love beer. Wheat beer is my favorite...and yes, I realize that I'm voluntarily emasculating myself with these comments. When it comes to beer, I'm in a relationship with Blue Moon; though it's a polygamist relationship, so I'm allowed to drink other brands from time to time.

I enjoy meeting new people, which is why I love living in NYC.

I'm confident about who I am and I don't spend time worrying about what other people think. Never have, never will.

I'm looking for a woman who can keep me on my toes both intellectually and emotionally. I'm also looking for a woman with a sense of humor; so if you don't have one, then you're probably not for me.
What I’m doing with my life
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I spent the last two years getting my MBA. I finished classes in April and I graduate in May. All of this means that my free time has expanded considerably.

I'm considering a career change from management consulting to private equity.

Now that I have my free time back, I'm looking to do more traveling. I'm also looking to enjoy more of the cultural experiences that NYC has to offer. This city is pretty amazing and I feel that I've only begun to explore all that it has to offer.

I'm looking to restart my dating life, which I neglected for the last two years. I'm definitely ready for a relationship with the right girl.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
1. being sarcastic and making people laugh
2. singing...I'm kind of a karaoke superstar
3. learning
4. telling stories
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm outgoing and funny.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Harry Potter, Great Gatsby, 1984, Catcher in the Rye, A Brave New World, Lord of the Flies, John Adams Biography, the Da Vinci Code, Neanderthal and many others.


Dead Poet's Society, Good Will Hunting, Trainspotting, and Requiem for a Dream to name a few.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Family
2. Friends
3. The Internet...yes, I'm addicted
4. My health
5. The opportunity to keep learning
6. Reading
7. Food, water, and maybe some air to breathe
8. Good wine

Yes, I know, that was more than six things, but thanks for keeping count.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Writing a book someday. I have the story framed out, I just need to find some inspiration. If you're a muse in your spare time, then you'll get major bonus points from me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It depends on the week, but it usually involves some activity with friends. Dinner and drinks is a go to.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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If I admit something private here, doesn't that make it public? Maybe I'll divulge a nice nugget during our first date, but you'll probably have to get a few drinks in me first. jk.
You should message me if
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You're a woman who is:

1. intelligent and articulate
2. appreciates learning
3. adventurous
4. affectionate
5. a conversationalist
6. comfortable in her own skin and is content with either going out for a night on the town or relaxing inside together
7. enjoys sarcasm