To be perfectly honest, it would be great to find a long term partner but am realistic about the journey to get there. As part of the process, i would like to find someone who i connect with both emotionally and physically and truly enjoy being with. I consider each person i meet, each relationship i have, to have value whether it ends up being that life long partner or not.
I am attracted to guys with a fun, kind of goofy (read lighthearted ) and vibrant personality, someone who is also honest and sincere, open minded and enjoys fun and witty bantering, can tell me all their life's funny stories and wants to listen to my funny stories, make me laugh and be able to have easy conversations both in and out of the bedroom . Gut wrenching hysterical laughter is so important to me for so many reasons. Of course serious conversation is equally important at times
i am attracted to men who care enough about themselves to take care of their bodies but are also able to let go and eat that hot fudge sundae or whatever their weakness might be. i am looking for a guy that is open, sincere, intelligient and affectionate. But its the eyes that get me everytime. Nothing sexier than smiling eyes and great lips. i am very affectionate and i am not shy. dont mistake affection for clingy. I have been down that road before and if you find affection to be clingy than we may not be a match.
We dont have to have everything in common, we dont have to be attached at the hip and differences can be very fun. i am pretty independent and you should be ok with that. i am looking for a guy who is open wih his feelings, ok with PDA's and always lets his partner know where she stands. no guessing games. i want to feel connected to someone both emotionally and physically. i want to long to kiss you and know you are thinking about kissing me too. i know it may be alot to ask and i know i may not find everything but it doesn hurt to put it out there.
i love my animals, i have two cats that i adore and now just one horse. I love the city, i love the mountains and the beach, Tahoe, Cariibbean, SF, NY. i have a sometimes very busy work life but because i work at home for myself, i have some flexibility. i am committed to my health and exercise regularly, cardio, yoga, hiking.... i have a weakness for dark chocolate, and ice cream, I do love to eat. i also love my wine, red and white, beer, and fun cocktails. Now you know why i work out so much :)
i want to meet someone who wants to have fun, do things, explore. Lets see if we can be friends and lovers. one without the other just isnt enough. Lets go with the flow, see how it progresses, have fun, be happy. I am picky to some extent but don't base everything on first impressions. Please dont email me if you are not local to the Bay Area of California. thanks for checking out my profile and responding regardless of any interest, ( or not!)