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57 San Rafael, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 2:53am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Spanish (Fluently), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Hi there, so for starters I'm not on here looking for a one night stand or phone sex or pictures of your junk :) text it to someone who wants to see it. I also have a keen sense for scammers, which seems to be the thing these days.

Update 2/20/15- I really need to update this profile and I will shortly. In a nutshell, my entire outlook on life has changed in the past 8 weeks. its amazing what a life without chronic pain can do for your soul, your spirit, your life.

I think if myself as lighthearted, funny, witty, silly and prone to hysterical fits of laughter and I have a crazy wild side, as well as a smart, intense and serious side. I have good friends, a close family, and my share of lifes stresses (not so much anymore!) . I am a hopeless romantic and express my feelings unconditionally. I don't believe in all or nothing. We don't have to be tied at the hip. We all need our alone time and time with friends and family.

I believe that a great loving relationship grows from a deep friendship and lots of that elusive chemistry, respect, and honesty. If we can find these things together we may have a shot at something meaningful and amazing. Still reading? :)

Ideally l am looking to meet a long term partner but am realistic about the journey to get there. I am attracted to guys with a fun, kind of goofy (read lighthearted ) and vibrant personality, someone who is also honest and sincere, open minded and enjoys fun and witty bantering, can tell me all their life's funny stories and wants to listen to my funny stories, make me laugh.

I would hope that you care enough about yourself to take care of your body but be able to let go and eat that hot fudge sundae or whatever your weakness might be. But its the eyes that get me everytime. Nothing sexier than smiling eyes and a great smile. i am very affectionate and not shy about it.

i am pretty independent and hope that you would be ok with that. i am looking for a guy who is open with his feelings, ok with PDA's and always lets his partner know where she stands.

i love animals, mine and everyone else's too!! i have two cats that i adore and a horse. I love the city, the mountains and the beach, Tahoe, Caribbean, SF, NY. i have a sometimes very busy work life but because i work at home for myself, i have some flexibility. i am committed to my health and exercise regularly, cardio, yoga, hiking.... i have a weakness for dark chocolate, and ice cream, I do love to eat. i also love my wine, red and white, beer, and fun cocktails. Now you know why i work out so much :)

I would love to meet someone who wants to have fun, do things, explore, or just hang out at home cooking, making and eating cookies :) I like to just go with the flow, see how it progresses, have fun, be happy.
What I’m doing with my life
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i work hard (not so much anymore but when I work I work hard), i play hard (even more so now), i love hard, i ride horses, i hike, i think alot, i read, and maybe spend too much time on this website!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a friend, making people feel comfortable, letting people know how i feel, having a really fun conversation with lots of laughter, my work (CPA- finance consultant) eating and drinking, making desserts, entertaining my friends for dinner, snuggling and kissing (so I've been told).
The first things people usually notice about me
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my smiley face. my fit upper body (which i am no longer uncomfortable about when people comment on it). But if your first comment in an email is "nice guns" you may not get a response :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies - pulp fiction, fargo, airplane just to name a few, and indie movies. Not much into summer blockbusters.
Tv shows - Modern family, Daily show. Stephen Colbert (sadly I have to take this off but I cant bear it yet), Glee ( yes i admit it!) football and basketball. ( Niners not raiders, lakers and warriors. )
books - anne lamott, secret life of bees, ya ya sisterhood.
food - anything but mushrooms, eggplant or fishy slimy stuff. no calamari, oysters, etc. Definite yes on pasta, chocolate, ice cream, Italian food, Thai, pizza, big salads
Music - JACKSON BROWNE, ANYWHERE, ANYTIME, Train, Three doors down. Love most music other than heavy metal or rap. Love my pandora!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my family and friends, my animals, beaches, affection, love, touching and being touched, travel, a great red blend and wine tasting.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what i am going to have for dinner...should i have dessert? red or white? should i take my horse for a trail ride or school him? did my DVR record Jon Stewart and Stephen Colbert (again, sadly have to remove soon) or did it screw up again? Why do guys post profiles with no pix or info about themselves? What does "new friends" REALLY mean? Why is it necessary to message or text for weeks on end without meeting? Let's just meet. What movies we like or tv shows is irrelevant when it comes to relationships so why list every movie or band you have ever watched or listened to?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
usually pooped, but up for a cocktail and a bite to eat, maybe a movie and always some good snuggles
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can't function without coffee. my new habit is the first cup is in bed. considering a coffee pot on my nightstand so i dont have to go downstairs to get it. I am not lazy, i am learning to pamper myself, and probably you too. I was in jail in Mexico. you only get the story if we meet. I come from a normally dysfunctional family that has grown to be functional over the years. I am afraid of getting old and being alone and of having no one to hold my hand in the dementia ward. No one wants to put anything in this box so I thought I would share some (not all!) of my private thoughts. I do have more :)
You should message me if
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you like smart and sassy women ,are local to the bay area, are really interested in getting to know someone and are outgoing and can make me laugh.