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44 Oak Ridge, TN Man


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  • Ages 29–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Apr 16
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Rover, wanderer, nomad, vagabond - Metallica

I am currently in Idaho, but shall be returning to the Knoxville area in the near future (this will be my 13th move in the past ten years, and I plan to stay put for a while this time).

I am very much a warm weather person, which was a large part of my decision to leave my "native" Chicago for Tennessee in 2004. I've moved to Idaho twice (once from late 2009 until early 2011, and again from early 2012 to present) for the benefit of my son, but I'd prefer to stay in a southern climate.

T-shirt: Be Nice to me or I'll sic my ninja monkey's on you.

I'm notorious for spouting random song lyrics, movie quotes, or really bad puns. It's infectious.too. Last week I spoke to a friend I haven't talked to in a year and she says she curses me weekly when she's walking around and a rondom song pops into her head BWAHAHAHA

I have a strange sense of humor. I like Epic Rap Battles of History and Oxhorn videos.

I love comedy and comedians: George Carlin, Dennis Leary, Robin Williams, Jeff Foxworthyand Lewis Black rank among my favorites. A friend of mine turned me onto Jeff Dunham a few years ago. "Silence....I keel you". HA!

Bumper sticker: Do not meddle in the affairs of Dragons, for you are crunchy and taste good with ketchup.

I'm grew up a GAMER Whether it is card games (anything from Spades to Uno to Magic:The Gathering) to board games (anything from Monopoly to Chess to Clue) to RPG's (D&D, Vampire:The Masquerade, Shadowrun). From computer/console games (particularly Civilization III & IV for my computer and Final Fantasy X on the Playstation2) to math puzzles (Cross Sums, Sudoku).While I've largely grown out of that lifestyle since I hit 30, especially now that I have a 4 year old to help raise, if it's a game I might be willing to play it from time to time.

Slogan: Do I look like a Thespian? I suck at drama

I have an interest in personality systems, and am a big fan of the Enneagram. I am a Type 5 with a very strong 4 wing, otherwise known as an Iconoclast (which is where the icon part of my name derives from). While not absolute, I do fit my profile very well (both the good point, and, unfortunately, the bad points as well).

I am very opened minded about a lot of things. While there are some things that are just not right for me, or that I am just not into, it doesn't mean I think they are wrong for everyone. Conversely, there are some aspects of my life that work for me that would clearly not work for everyone else. The trick is to find those people for whom life works in harmony with each other.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
"Welcome to Walmart - now get your crap and get the hell out" - Walter
Currently I'm a night stocker at Walmart. I describe my job as thus: I put stuff on shelves and they pay me, then I go take stuff off the shelves and give them their money back. It's a vicious cycle. It may not be the best paying job in the world, but it's enough to pays the bills, and the schedule allows me to maximize my time with my son. Plus, I've always enjoyed work that requires a fair amount of physical labor.

Raising my son. I was fortunate enough to be able to be a stay at home dad for about a year and a half (the one upside to being out of work) and even working full time again I am still very active with my kid.

Getting myself back into shape physically and mentally. I've slowly gotten a bit off track and out of shape over the course of the past decade, and I'm in the process of fixing that.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
It's easier to list what I'm not good at:

Art(istic skills) - I can't draw, or paint, or sew. I can't sing or dance or play any musical instruments (although I'd love to be a rock guitarist).

Social skills - I'm an introvert. Most people tend to like me once they get to know me, but it often takes a while form me to warm up to people (or for them to warm up to me). I make a horrible salesman or customer service rep.

I guess I could say I'm really good at knowing what I'm not good at, and staying the hell away from them.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm tall (6'2).

One of my best friends described me thus: "You're like a giant freaking Teddy Bear unless someone actually manages to piss you off, then it's like running into a rabid Grizzly." A few of my other friend agreed, so I went with it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love to read, although I don't seem to find the time as much anymore. Mostly Sci-Fi/Fantasy, but I have a wide cross-section, including a fair amount of psychology, philosophy and spirituality.

Tolkien, Terry Brooks (Shannara)
Piers Anthony (Xanth), Anne McCaffrey (Pern)
R.A. Salvatore (Drittz/Forgotten Realms)
Margret Weis & Tracy Hickman (Dragonlance, Deathgate Cycle)
Clive Cussler, Lee Child
Douglas Adams - The More Than Complete Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy Series
Sherlock Holmes
George Orwell - 1984
Umberto Eco - Foucault's Pendulum (If Dan Brown's Da Vinci Code were Algebra this would be Calculus)
H.W. Brands - The First American: The Life and Times of Benjamin Franklin
Micheal White - Issac Newton: The Last Sorcerer
Robert M. Pirsig - Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance
Jesse Ventura - I Ain't Got Time to Bleed
James Redfield - Celestine Prophecy, Tenth Insight, Secret of Shambala
Neale Donald Walsh - Conversation with God series

V for Vendetta(SPEECH)
The Fifth element
Mask of Zorro
The Core
Bulletproof Monk
Jerry McGuire
Pretty much any movie with WILL SMITH
Pretty much any KEVIN SMITH movie.
X-Men trilogy, Blade trilogy, Spiderman trilogy, Iron Man 1 & 2, Wolverine, Constantine, Underworld trilogy, Resident Evil trilogy, Tomb Raider 1 & 2, Mummy, Mummy Returns, Scorpion King Lord of the Rings trilogy

Man in the Iron Mask, Legends of the Fall, Tristan & Isolde, The 13th Warrior, Beowulf, King Arthur, Merlin, Robin Hood (Errol Flynn version), Robin Hood:Prince of Thieves, Braveheart

Star Wars series, Star Trek 1 & 2, Matrix trilogy, Die Hard series, Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon, Curse of the Golden Flower

The Notebook, Basic, Wild Things, American History X, Broken Arrow, DaVinci Code, Angels & Demons, Alladin

My Cousin Vinny, Bruce Almighty, Liar Liar, History of the World, Spaceballs, Hudson Hawk

I don't really watch a lot of TV these days, but when I do:
Highlander, The Big Bang Theory, Battlestar Galactica, CSI, CSI:New York, NCIS, Criminal Minds]], WWE Wrestling

I have close to 14,000 songs on my computer. I prefer rock/metal and a fair amount of hip-hop/rap, but I'll listen to just about anything when the mood strikes me. If you want to know what I'm generally listening to, check out
My LastFM Profile).

Some of the more frequent artists I listen to:

[Metallica - Savatage - Korn - Linkin Park - Nickelback- Disturbed P.O.D. Powerman 5000 Sevendust (HED) P.E., Eminem Insane Clown Posse
- Duran Duran - Enuff Z'nuff - Stabbing Westward - Black Label Society - Bloodhound Gang - Black Eyed Peas - Evanescence - Jane Child - Pink - The Cruxshadows - Midnight Syndicate - Nox Arcana - Frontline Assembly - Rhammstein

FOOD - Tombstone pizza, mac and cheese, steak and potatoes. I'm a simple fare can of guy generally.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Indoor plumbing and hot water ( I suppose I could if I absolutely had to, but I don't really see it).

Intelligent conversation




Quality Friends/family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
There isn't enough space to cover it all, and if there was nobody would read it. Just pretend there are 30 paragraphs here and say TL:DR heh
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, Unfotuntately. One of the pitfalls of being on third shift.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have two roommates, one of whom happens to be the mother of my son (we have out own rooms, and she is, in fact, in a relationship at the moment). I do this because I have a very close relationship with my son, and the advantages of being able to be under the same roof currently outwiegh the disadvantages.
You should message me if
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You feel like it. One of my best friends, whom I met on this site, originally messages me with a question about a book (George Orwell's 1984) and I've known her almost 7 years now. Generally, I don't message people much anymore myself. I mostly use the site these days to keep track of the journals of some of the awesome people I've met here over the years. I'm always up for meeting new people, though, and who knows, perhaps someday I'll find the one.