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  • Ages 30–49
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My details

Last online
Jul 16
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Has a kid
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Rover, wanderer, nomad, vagabond - Metallica

I guess the first thing anyone should know is I have a 6 year old son (soon to be 7) that I am raising (his mother is out of the picture). I also work overnight. This doesn't always leave a lot of free time to meet people but I try to make time as I can.

T-shirt: Be Nice to me or I'll sic my ninja monkey's on you.

I'm notorious for spouting random song lyrics, movie quotes, or really bad puns. It's infectious.too. I have a very good sense of humor.

Bumper sticker: Do not meddle in the affairs of Dragons, for you are crunchy and taste good with ketchup.

I'm a "semi-retired" gamer. Anything from RPGs (D&D, Shadowrun) to card games (solitaire, spads, magic the gathering, uno) to board games (chess, monopoly) to computer games (civilization 3 & 4) to even the occasional console game (Final Fantasy X) but I don't really have a lot of opportunities to find people to play with these days.

Slogan: Do I look like a Thespian? I suck at drama

Above all else be honest. I don't have time for liars or mind games.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm an overnight stocker for Kroger. It's not the most glamorous job in the world, but I enjoy what I do and I'm really good at it (although now that I'm in my 40s it's not quite as easy as it used to be).
Raising my son. I was fortunate enough to be able to be a stay at home dad for the first year and a half of my son's life and even working full time again I am still very active with my kid.

Other than that there isn't a whole lot going on these days.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Math, I tend to have a good head for numbers.

Being a parent and dealing with kids.

Being a smartass.

The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Not really a sure what people notice about me. I'm somewhat tall at 6'1.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love to read, although I don't seem to find the time as much anymore. Mostly Sci-Fi/Fantasy, but I have a wide cross-section, including a fair amount of psychology, philosophy and spirituality.

Tolkien, Terry Brooks (Shannara)
Piers Anthony (Xanth), Anne McCaffrey (Pern)
R.A. Salvatore (Drittz/Forgotten Realms)
Margret Weis & Tracy Hickman (Dragonlance, Deathgate Cycle)
Clive Cussler, Lee Child
Douglas Adams - The More Than Complete Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy Series
Sherlock Holmes
George Orwell - 1984
Umberto Eco - Foucault's Pendulum (If Dan Brown's Da Vinci Code were Algebra this would be Calculus)
H.W. Brands - The First American: The Life and Times of Benjamin Franklin
Micheal White - Issac Newton: The Last Sorcerer
Robert M. Pirsig - Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance
Jesse Ventura - I Ain't Got Time to Bleed
James Redfield - Celestine Prophecy, Tenth Insight, Secret of Shambala
Neale Donald Walsh - Conversation with God series

V for Vendetta(SPEECH)
The Fifth element
Mask of Zorro
The Core
Bulletproof Monk
Jerry McGuire
Pretty much any movie with WILL SMITH
Pretty much any KEVIN SMITH movie.
X-Men trilogy, Blade trilogy, Spiderman trilogy, Iron Man 1 & 2, Wolverine, Constantine, Underworld trilogy, Resident Evil trilogy, Tomb Raider 1 & 2, Mummy, Mummy Returns, Scorpion King Lord of the Rings trilogy

Man in the Iron Mask, Legends of the Fall, Tristan & Isolde, The 13th Warrior, Beowulf, King Arthur, Merlin, Robin Hood (Errol Flynn version), Robin Hood:Prince of Thieves, Braveheart

Star Wars series, Star Trek 1 & 2, Matrix trilogy, Die Hard series, Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon, Curse of the Golden Flower

The Notebook, Basic, Wild Things, American History X, Broken Arrow, DaVinci Code, Angels & Demons, Alladin

My Cousin Vinny, Bruce Almighty, Liar Liar, History of the World, Spaceballs, Hudson Hawk

I don't really watch a lot of TV these days, but when I do:
Highlander, The Big Bang Theory, Battlestar Galactica, CSI, CSI:New York, NCIS, Criminal Minds]], WWE Wrestling

I have close to 25,000 songs on my computer. I prefer rock/metal and a fair amount of hip-hop/rap, but I'll listen to just about anything when the mood strikes me. If you want to know what I'm generally listening to, check out
My LastFM Profile).

Some of the more frequent artists I listen to:

[Metallica - Savatage - Korn - Linkin Park - Nickelback- Disturbed P.O.D. Powerman 5000 Sevendust (HED) P.E., Eminem Insane Clown Posse
- Duran Duran - Enuff Z'nuff - Stabbing Westward - Black Label Society - Bloodhound Gang - Black Eyed Peas - Evanescence - Jane Child - Pink - The Cruxshadows - Midnight Syndicate - Nox Arcana - Frontline Assembly - Rhammstein

FOOD - Tombstone pizza, mac and cheese, steak and potatoes. I'm a simple fare can of guy generally.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Indoor plumbing and hot water ( I suppose I could if I absolutely had to, but I don't really see it).

Intelligent conversation




Quality Friends/family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
There isn't enough space to cover it all, and if there was nobody would read it. Just pretend there are 30 paragraphs here and say TL:DR heh
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, Unfotuntately. One of the pitfalls of being on third shift.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You want to know something feel free to ask.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You feel like it. One of my best friends, whom I met on this site, originally messaged me with a question about a book (George Orwell's 1984) and I've known her almost 9 years now.